Trouble with my Girlfriend
Hi,
Im having a bit of bother with my girlfriend and don't know what to do, here is the info.
Right I live in Newcastle upon tyne and she does to and we see each other everyday and she spends almost every night at my place and we have been seeing each other for 1 year on Saturday 14th July.
My family home is in Scotland now and has been for the last 4 years and I like to visit my family especially since my Mother died 3 years ago, I feel I should see my Dad and brother and sister.
Now when I come to Scotland and this time I came up because my dad has just bought a car for me to learn to drive, she says that she doesn't want me to come, which I understand and in the past she has finished me by Text when I was on my way up to Scotland, and she keeps saying this one thing in particular which is "you always choose them over me".
The most recent time she said this was yesterday via msn I was on chatting to her just after my Dad, me and my brother had an argument. She said I could go if I needed but I said its OK ill stay to talk to you. Then my brother was talking about killing himself and preceded to pack a small bag and said he was leaving, he wouldn't say where to and he wasn't taking money or food eventually we got him to stay and my dad let him stay at a friends house but he wanted me to talk to dad and go in the car with them. This is when I told my girlfriend what was happening and she immedietly said that phrase and then wouldn't talk to me and told her not to ring her that day or the day after.
But I did ring first time she hung up on me second time her sister told me she didn't want to speak to me.
And now I just don't know what to do?
Any help will be greatly appreciated. By the way I Love her very strongly.
Sorry for the amount of text but I feel all details are necessary.
Thanks, Barador
Oh also she still lives at home and is 2 years younger than me. All her family live close to her so she gets to see them when ever she wants.
What should I do? I talked to her about it last time and she seemed to understand but it came back again.
If you don't like telling me what to do just say what you would do in this situation please
Thanks, Barador