I've been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months now.
Recently its been getting very physical. No not sex or oral sex.
None of that whatsoever
But, when we make out its hardout steamy french kissing making out.
And it's the kind of physical like I'll be on top of him with my legs wrapped around him kind of thing and our bodies will be pressed up against each other.
We're not planning to have sex or oral sex or blow jobs etc. but I just want to know
If this is too physical for 15 year olds? And if making out too much will ruin the relationship?

Making out like that too much will certainly put both of you in a compromising sexual position very soon. I don't know how the two of you have managed so far to stay away from the sexual side of 'steamy french kissing'. Have either one of you been sexually active before this ? Do you want to get pregnant ? I would say cut out the steamy stuff if you both want to complete your education without getting wrapped up in unwanted pregnancies and possibly marriage that will not last because the both of you are way to young.

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Why not spend more time getting to know each other better instead of only making out?

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Originally Posted by I wish

Why not spend more time getting to know each other better instead of only making out?

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We've been bestfriends for 3 years.. I know everything about him.. will it ruin the friendship? Making out all the time? We have our control. We will not go any deeper into any sexual intimacy, we're really religious kind of thing. Like we have that mentality that sex before marriage isn't an option. But how do you cut down on the whole making out thing ?

It won't ruin the relationship, but to strengthen a relationship, you should spend some quality time getting to know each other better. Otherwise, you're no different than a friends with benefits arrangement.