Hello, first of all I'm glad to be part of such a great community here and hope to be able to help people out and also hope that they can help me out also.
I have problems at the moment and I honestly don't know what to do, OK I'll start from the top.
There's this girl I met who I've liked since the day I met her but she had a boyfriend, I didn't do anything to get in the way of that as that's not the type of person I am, then things ended with her boyfriend me and her started dating but nothing too serious, then I introduced her to a friend of mine who was one of my BEST friends and they ended up sleeping together, while I still liked her and they both knew it. Recently I decided to start speaking to them both again but every time I see that they've been talking or anything like that I get this feeling of devastation like I did when I found out, tonight was the breaking point where I asked this girl if she still liked my friend and she said she wasn't sure, so I told this girl that I couldn't speak to her anymore because the sadness was tearing me apart. Was this the right thing to do? I feel so upset about it and just really need some sort of advice on that subject by someone who's been there maybe?
If this isn't in the appropriate section I have no objection to it being moved, I just hope this question can be answered, I'm just literally devastated at the moment.
If I haven't explained a certain part of this too well please don't hesitate to ask me about it.
Thanks.