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  • Nov 8, 2019, 12:57 PM
    honeybun35
    What do you think about an emotional affair?
    Everyone is saying that me and my old friend is having an emotional affair. I don't see it like that. I see 2 people who are old friends staying in touch. There's no sex. This guy have no intentions on having sex with me. It is all for fun and game. We had sex once 2014 after having sex back in 1991. I don't see any emotions at all.
  • Nov 8, 2019, 02:09 PM
    talaniman
    Do you think he would tell his wife about what you two converste about? Does she even know you're friends and chat often? Have you ever asked him about what she may think you to are doing as ex lovers? Does she know you are an ex lover of his, and still in contact? If you don't know the answers to these questions then maybe he is the one carrying on the emotional affair with YOU, and you are just clueless. Not to be harsh but you should know how that could look from an outsiders point of view.
  • Nov 8, 2019, 02:58 PM
    honeybun35
    I am not too sure about his wife and what she knows. I have little access to his Facebook page. I'm unable to see his relationship status. Meaning if you didn't know him you'd think he is single but he's married.I doubt she knows about me though.He really just having a fun time chatting with me that's all.
  • Nov 8, 2019, 06:35 PM
    talaniman
    An emotional affair on his part, and you as the object of it, and honestly you should have been aware of that. You have no choice in my book, but to end this silly game. That's all it is a silly game between a pervert and a bored female.
  • Nov 8, 2019, 07:22 PM
    honeybun35
    What you mean game and bored? Silly game
  • Nov 8, 2019, 07:35 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by honeybun35 View Post
    What you mean game and bored? Silly game

    What's the point?
  • Nov 9, 2019, 04:15 AM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by honeybun35 View Post
    What you mean game and bored? Silly game

    That's what you call what you and this fellow are doing with each other, and it's a toxic pointless exercise in wasting each others time. A very unhealthy situation for you both.
  • Nov 9, 2019, 05:19 AM
    honeybun35
    I agree guessing cause it's going no where it's a game to waste time.
  • Nov 9, 2019, 09:46 AM
    talaniman
    So why are you wasting YOUR time?
  • Nov 9, 2019, 09:58 AM
    honeybun35
    How Wasting time by texting.im.not stopping pleasure cause him .I am dealing w someone

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