Can I be put into foster care, or do I just need to be put into a mental hospital?
I am 16 years old right now. I have had the worst life for the last 8 years. When I was little my mom married and my step-dad was really strict but I didn't care, then they got divorced when I was 8 and my mom took it really bad. She was out every night at bars and casinos she couldn't hold a job very long at all. She would always come home drunk it was horrible. Eventually we couldn't make the house payment so we moved out with my grandparents when I was 10. My biological dad was never in the picture until I asked about him when I was 10. I met him and stayed with him a few times but then we lost contact for 6 years. I just met him again like 2 months ago but barely talk to him.
Anyway when we moved with my grandparents it was OK but I slept on the floor, didn't bother me until I developed back problems. When I was in 9th grade I became super depressed and was cutting, I had cut before when I was younger but tried to stop. It just got worse over time, my mom was still never home, didn't have a job, and the money she did get was spent on the casino and beer, my grandparents supported me and my brother as much as they could but it wasn't the same. I had started drinking and doing pot, eventually my mom found out and I got in some serious trouble. When I would do something small that got my mom angry and I tried to explain myself like forgetting to do something she would slap me, but it wasn't a lot just every now and then. My mom always neglected me when I was around, but when I wasn't, she would get mad at me for not loving her anymore, and give me a big guilty trip about it. She used me and neglected me for a long time.
When she found out I cut she called me a stupid idiot and threatened to put me in a mental hospital that second. She actually almost hit me. Eventually I made the decision to move in with my aunt and uncle in Moore. My mom didn't like that idea but gave in a few hours later. Now I never speak to her and I never see her because I don't want to, I'm better off with out her. I still cut, even when I try not to, I don't eat very much and I throw up my food when I eat it sometimes. I love living here but I just want to be away from all of my family. I feel I could do better without them all.
Can I be put into foster care? Or do I need to be put into a mental hospital for a little while to stop my cutting and eating habits, and to fix my severe anxiety and depression? BTW I have been seeing a therapist for 2 years but it hasn't helped me that much. I am not taking medication but I think I need to. What do I do?
Btw I live in Oklahoma