I want to know about this technique so that I can use this on someone and made them work according to me.

You clearly don't understand hypnosis then... because that's not how it works, and that's not what its for... Yes I used to know a professional hypnotist for a lot of years... I also know that some people just can not be hypnotised. You can't make people do anything that they wouldn't be willing to do while not under it.

You need to deal with this deep seated need to control others before it gets you in trouble.

Agreed... not at all how hypnosis works.

With hypnosis you can't make someone do something they normally wouldn't do. A person can only be hypnotized if they're relaxed and trust the person hypnotizing them. From what you posted it sounds like this person has many reasons not to trust you, so learning how to do this really won't help you at all.

Have you considered counseling for dealing with your control issues?

I'm curious - what do you want someone to do for you and why?

Plus, you asked this under Spirituality. I find it creepy and anti-spiritual. Controlling other human beings is for B movies and tyrants and torture chambers. Is that you?