Originally Posted by
ITstudent2006
You have to realize that nothing you do will changer her mind. If there was something you could do that would give you'se another shot you have to realize it wouldn't be sincere emotions.
Going NC was a good idea,it gives her time to think and time for you to think as well. Your answer back to her depends on what you're looking for in a relationship with her. If you still want to be friends, or if you still want to date her.
Obviously she doesn't want to date so friends are about all you can be. If you would like to remain friends then I would respond with something that reflects that, if friends aren't an option and you're looking for more complete NC is the way to go.
However, my opinion on her actions are as follows. You both had fun on your dates, and the time you spent together. Her playing this little game, asking how your break up is etc...makes me think that was never serious about you and that she was along for the fun and the company. Don't take it personal, some people just like the company of another and the fun involved, no more no less.
Can you look past this and just be friends? Can you stand to see her date another, can she stand to see you with another? Remaining friends after something like this is usually difficult because one party almost always wants more then the other. In this case, it sounds like she wants to be friends and you might want more.
Can you deal with it?
Hope this helps!
P.S. If you remain friends, tell her the game has got to stop. When you break up with someone after 5 days or 5 years, you don't txt them asking how the breakup is going. That is rude and immature!