Can a lady switch off in 24 hours!
I am 39 and in a marriage that has no meaning. It is not possible to get separated (so we can't talk about that)
My story is a regular one, but I need help!
I know this attractive lady for over 3 years and she too is married.
She used to always be proud of her husband who she would not only talk about frequently but very openly showed, how much she loved.
Since we used to work together, we were just regular colleagues, until last year when I moved on.
5 months ago, we started chatting an for some strange reason she started to message me more often.
I used to flirt with her and never get any response, till one day she reciprocated.
From then, we would be in touch with each other on every occasion we could, we would wake each other up with a message and finally sleep with a message.
In the interim period we would meet as often as we could, and they were always in public places.
She came on very very strong to me emotionally, to a point I gave in to.
She would get upset if I would not respond to her messages or her call. But we never had any tussles over it. It was fun and the attention was high!
Finally last weekend, as her husband was out, we landed up at her place and got into a physical relationship!
THAT WAS IT!
From then on, she has just stopped being warm. But the problem is, she has not stopped communicating! She still messages, and calls, but the intensity and frequency is gone!
We would be in touch every half hour and now its been days since she has communicated.
My question is CAN ONE JUST SWITCH OFF in 24 hours?
Why does she still chat with me? I am in pain, I miss her and the wonderful communication channel we had. I can't get over her and the worst part is we are going to work together soon! She talks to me as if I am just one of the many people in her life, unlike the way she used to, which made me feel so special!
PLEASE HELP!:(