Me and my fiancé have been engaged for 2 months. Since we have been engaged my fiancé has been making love to me all the time that will last for 2 and 3 hours. When we were dating we would make love maybe 2 times a week. After we make love my body is aching. Is this a problem? Can someone help me?

What do you mean by your body is aching? Is it your "area" that's aching or your actual limbs?

Both it hurts so bad I can't touch it myself. When a guy gives you a hicky be a bad thing?

Well having that much sex can understandabley make your body sore but your nether region probably hurts like that because since you are having sex for so long you dry out and the constant rubbing without the lubricant can make you feel like your bruised down there. Make sure that constantly lubricated and try and talk to your guy about settling down about if it's really hurting.

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Originally Posted by ingrid119

Well having that much sex can understandabley make your body sore but your nether region probably hurts like that because since you are having sex for so long you dry out and the constant rubbing without the lubricant can make you feel like your bruised down there. Make sure that constantly lubricated and try and talk to your guy about settling down about if it's really hurting.

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Thank you. My boobs and my neck has been hurting me the most. Do you think I could be pregnant? We have been making love for 2 months without protection. Is that bad?

Well it's hardly a good thing if your not set on having kids or have not discussed it yet.I would get yourself tested for pregnancy you don't have to get your partner involved in this stage if you don't feel he will be happy but I would suggest an honest approach is the best approach.where you might think he would be angry upset he may turn out to be the totall oppersit.

Defintley get yourself checked though.

Well that's the birds and the bees and if you missed your period I'd get a pregnancy test

Sex for 2-3 hours? He must have received his sex education from porn, the worst place to learn about healthy sex.

That long a time is strictly abusive the way you describe it. Five to ten minutes is long enough for stroking. Girl, you are going to be plagued with bladder infections if you allow him to abuse your genitals this way.

2-3 hours a day is having sex... not making love. While they share some things together, Making love supercedes just having sex for the sake of having sex.

Ah youth, Glad your having fun, but for the aches, and pains after a strenuous work out, aspirin, hot bath, and a nap.

Learn to change positions, and save the wear, and tear of some of your body parts.

Make sure your hydrated as muscle cramps can also be a bummer. Your neck will be okay if you rest often, and don't stand on your head as much.

We humans have a limit as to the things we do, and how long, and often, we can do what we do, so enjoy it while you can.

What a fun way to learn your limits. Enjoy your youth and the babies you make.

Ouch! Are you guys having sex or making love?

2-3 hours is too much. Soon you will start saying no and you will hurt your relationship. Keep it short yet fully charged if you know what I mean.

It's NOT called making love when you are going THAT long! He is hammering you over and over, and the vagina WILL get sore, along with your arms and neck from just holding on! Take a Break! And, yes, if you aren't using protection, you WILL get pregnant... take a test if you miss your period.