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  • Jun 6, 2007, 03:32 PM
    crazyswimmer1
    I have a friend and she doesn't know what to do.
    Ok... seriously this is a friend. I'm not kidding, if it was about me I'd say so. So anyway.. I have this friend and she likes a younger guy. Hes all right looking (for a grade nine) but he is really really young for her... and I know it wouldn't seem so weird if we weren't in high school, but we are. So its kind of a big deal... no? So she thinks he's completely and utterally sexy, and we think that he likes her back. But unfortunately our other friends (and me sometimes.. I'm not going to lie.. I call him training-wheels.. I know its mean.. but she laughs at it.. and well she's sitting right here to... so there lol) make fun of her for liking him because he's two years younger. Now the question is... What do you think she should do about it? Because she doesn't want to loose her other friends (cuz they wouldn't hangout with younger people.. our school is kind of junior.. senior)[I won't be going anywhere], but she doesn't want to loose the guy either. So again, what should she do?:confused:
  • Jun 6, 2007, 06:35 PM
    Ladyviper
    Well if her friends are willing to ditch her because it is not cool to be with a younger guy, then they aren't people she wants in her life anyway. Why let other people hold her back from doing something she thinks is right? I tell her to go for it, real friends will stick around and the garbage will be weeded out.
  • Jun 6, 2007, 07:22 PM
    Skell
    2 years difference might seem like a lot now but one day you will realise it is nothing at all.

    If her friends are willing to ditch her because she likes a younger guy then they aren't very good friends to begin with.

    She has to make her own decisions and live by them. No one else can make them for her. Unless of course her parents have a say in it.

    And don't let boys distract you from your school work. ;)

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