Well yeah, my girlfriend wants me to write a soppy, love felt message and I don't know what to write. Can anyone help me or give me some clues ? Would be a big help thanks

If we wrote it for you, it won't come from you.

Just write what you feel. Unless you don't feel anything for this girl?

Tell her how why you love her so much. List out the reasons. Tell her how she makes you feel.

By the way, how old are you? She sounds very demanding.

Yeah I have really strong feelings for her, its just me that I don't no how to put it into words, I find things like that hard

How old are you?

You must at least think she's smart? Pretty? Atheltic? Kind? Friendly? Nice? Loving? Caring?

I'm 19

I do think those things about her, but its hardly touching if I just list things about her is it.

Then tell her how she makes you feel. Aren't you happy with her? Tell her WHY she makes you happy.

I can see why she's asking you to write thie letter now. Sounds like you are not very expressive with your emotions.

This problem is bigger than just 1 letter. If you don't start letting her know you feel, she's going to feel insecure and may eventually lose interest.

Thanks for your vote of confidence pal ?

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thanks for your vote of confidence pal ?

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Well if I wasn't going to mention it, she will. Better me warning you ahead of time than her giving you hell about it. I'm helping you prevent a future fight that you definitely do not want to have.

Were closer than that, she knows how I feel for her just that she asked me to write it down once and I couldn't think of anything romantic to put in

Just say I am not really good at expressing my feelings on paper but I will try ,because you mean that much to me .

Then proceed to tell her what made you fall in love with her.

Tell her how she makes you feel.Tell her how you feel when you aren't with her.

Tell her how she has enriched your life.
Don't stress over it ,just speak from your heart and know that it is more the thought than the content that will please her.

Well if she knows how you feel, then just write it down. Even if you said it 100 times, just write it down anyway. Maybe she just wants a written record of what you said... so don't forget, she can always use that letter against you.

I know I'm being harsh about this, but usually people ask questions when there's a problem, not when things are happy.

Just put your feelings into words. One idea is to tell the story of how and when you developed feelings for her (i.e. Milestones, such as when you first liked her and then when you first feel in love) She'll definitely appreciate the effort and the thought.

Hi, ryan_milligan!

You'll get better at writing them the more that you put time into practicing doing so. I used to not be able to write letters at all. Now, I can write volumes.

Thanks!

Why don't you start by sending her a text message, so you can feel your doing something because you want to and it will be a surprise for her

Can't wait to see you, Ive been smiling all day thinking about you.

That's something small... but a starter... dont worry about looking akward... girls love getting messages from they boyfriend, even if it the message sounds weird to you, getting messages lets her know you think about her and that you care about her.

Thanks Artlady just what I needed (Y) shal take your advice

Thanks everyone big help! What would I do with you out :) haha thanks again

Don't forget to tell her how much you enjoy the sexual connection between the two of you ;)

Haha yeah that bit is always good

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haha yeah that bit is always good

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Lol yeah they love that maybe it will even get you laid ;)

Lord of my love, to whom in vassalage
Thy merit hath my duty strongly knit,
To thee I send this written ambassage,
To witness duty, not to show my wit:
Duty so great, which wit so poor as mine
May make seem bare, in wanting words to show
It,
But that I hope some good conceit of thine
In thy soul's thought, all naked, will bestow it;
Till whatsoever star that guides my moving
Points on me graciously with fair aspect,
And puts apparel on my tatter'd loving,
To show me worthy of thy sweet respect:
Then may I dare to boast how I do love thee;
Till then not show my head where thou mayst
Prove me .
Shakespere