Why can't I receive child support or Social Security for my son?
I am an ex-wife of an Army National Guard Soldier. He had gone on a tour in Iraq and ended up injured by shrapnal. He says he is still in the Army National Guard out of Saginaw, MI, but also says he collects a disability check every month (which is supposably different then regular disability; being in the military).
He was court ordered to pay $301.00/mo for child support before even going to Iraq and during his tour I had to make a phone call stating I wasn't receiving anything. They then set it up where I did receive a check each month, but just until he go home.
He is now almost $10,000 in the hole in child support and the courts are proceeding, but I don't understand how he can be collecting disability and still be in the military.
He had called me to get our son's social security number because his counsler told him to claim him as a dependent because he pays child support on him. I told him that he is my dependent and I support him. He told me he would get more money to pay his child support, but I still don't receive anything. I have a feeling he just screwed me over.
I don't know what to do, where to start or who I should contact.
If he's on disablity shouldn't my son be getting a check each month through Social Security?
I make $18,000/year and have to depend on the State for assistance. I depend on that money I don't receive. Please help answer my question or give me some direction.
Thank You.