Originally Posted by ScottGem
First may I offer my condolences on your loss. I agree with Progunr but I might take this a step further. I would write them a letter stating why you would be unable to pay this month and asking that your loan be extended one month under the circumstances. In the letter I would also insist that any future correspondence be by mail. I might also consider dropping some hints about how the press might like the story of them harassing a mother who just lost her children through such a tragedy.