Trying to figure out some things here. When a woman can have a on going through out the day conversation even with someone she don't have to see on a relationship is that a good friendship or not. My friend and I not the fwb we communicate more than me and my fwb. The conversation could go throughout the whole day up until we fall asleep.

He is just a friend we used to mess around almost 30 yrs ago. He is happily married. He and his wife brought a beautiful house 3 yrs ago. Well he did tell me he lover her but not in love with her. He has messed around on her though. He is not going no where.

The point that I am trying to make is we can talk about anything. He gives me advice about my fwb. Since he's known about my fwb I think we talk even more than before though. He tries to help me out in the situation.He actually told me the reason the guy mentioned his name in the post was because he is immature.

Everybody should have a good friend they can honestly talk to. I don't think the gender of that friend matters much at all, as long as it doesn't cause PROBLEMS and DRAMA in either of your lives.

It sounds like he cares for you. My concern is that he is married. A happily married man will not text another female from sun up to sun down. Are you friendly with his wife?

Oh ok great. Sometimes you need male and woman opinions about things. I can get the females but him being a male he tells me how things is. We were intimate many many yrs ago. That was then

You haven’t answered a very important question.

Are you friends with with his wife?

I didn't know that question was asked but no I am not friends with her because he is the one that I am friends with.I met her at a function once but because he doesn't live in the area I hardly see him anyway to even see or be friends with her.