I really need some advice. I am going to keep this short and staight to the point. I am due to be married soon and have a baby with my fiancé, he is great and everything I want. The problem is that I have a guy mate who I have been in contact with for almost two years, and previously we were very close friends at school. By close I mean we went out once for very very short period and split up because of silly lilttle argument. Anyway, my guy friend has also got a partner who he doesn't live with yet, but he is planning to propose. She is great, I have met her before.
Now, when me and my guy mate talk we sometimes flirt and its obvious that you have strong feelings for eachtother. Just after having my son I ended up kissing him and we both admitted that it felt right but it will never happen again. Of course it happned again last week, we can't fight our feelings for each other any longer. We don't want to split up with our partners but we don't want to lose eachtother either. He is justa s messed up as I am and we don't know what to do.
I feel so selfish for wanting to be with someone else, and part of me wonders that may be the only reason I am still with my partner is because we have a son together and a house. I really need so opinions.
Thank you