Im kind of in the same situation. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 7 months and all of a sudden my good (girl friend) are close. I don't know if I'm tripping or if I should be concerned. He's cheated before and I don't know what to think. Im trying to trust him but its hard when my "friend" is all over him. Like for example we'll be eating lunch or breakfast in the café, and he'll totally ignore me, as if I'm not there. I hate it especially because he's leaving soon, and I won't be able to see him in a while. He'll be moving and furthering his education, while I'm here still in Jobcorps. She's always around and I don't know, if I should tell her how I feel I told him and he thinks I'm being ridiculous, I'm going to talk to her about it later on today.

Once a cheater always a cheater. Not much more to say then that.

Insecurity is pretty much the price you pay for staying with a cheater, and mixing boyfriend time with your friends time. Seems an easy thing to keep them both separate. You might want to ask yourself what is it about you that is uncomfortable and insecure and change that, rather than trying to change others.

Has your girlfriend taken any of your boyfriends before? How old are you both? Why is she always there? That in itself sounds pretty strange. Please explain.