I've been married happily to my wife for 2 years now. We have never had sex, even on our wedding night we slept in seprate beds... I love my wife and I would never cheat, but I feel like I'm a bad husband for not understanding why she dislikes being touched in a loving way. When we first started dating it was in high school. Before then we literally ran into each other and were friends for years. I never asked about her relationships before me and really I'd rather not know. I've done everything in being gently with her and I'm not trying to ask should I be rough at all, I just want to know how to somewhat change her mind.
She's a beautiful woman and we talk about everything but when it comes down to sex and kids, we'll she just gets upset and tells me, she can't and walks away... I really don't know what to do anymore...