Am I in an abusive relationship?
My girlfriend of one year has been increasing more irrational and has started becoming physically violent. In the last 3 months I have been slapped, punched, shoved and at one point dragged off my sofa and on the floor for about 15 feet. She has never caused any serious injury but these events seem to be increasing in frequency and intensity. The issues that trigger her seem, to me, to be either trivial or entirely fabricated. She has just begun threatening to hurt herself if I leave. I love her deeply and in the beginning she was everything I've ever wanted in a relationship. Am I in the beginnings of an abusive relationship? What is the appropriate course of action?