Friend seems distant nowadays
I've been friends with this girl online for about 1.5 years. (strictly platonic) We didn't really talk a lot until about 4 months ago. From then till about May we talked like almost everyday, or quite a few times a week. And they were really fun and nice to talk to, and I was glad that she wanted to actually talk to me.
But around the end of May, I started to get annoyed because she didn't come on MSN as regularly as she used to (like, she came on once every 3 days). So I left her a MS message, and she didn't reply to it, so I sent her an email like, "hey is there some reason you're not coming on MSN?". Then she said she has been really busy etc, and she was annoyed that I accused her of ignoring me. ( even though she kind of was ignoring me, because I know for a fact that she was not busy at all, and was on the computer most of the time)
So then in June we were talking, and I said something like "you don't really talk to me like you used to" or something and she said "I'm kinda afraid that if i get too chatty, you'll go all clingy again and i'll be sad lol"
But she is so un-fun and boring to talk to nowadays, whereas before it was like she actually -wanted- to talk with me.
So since about the start of June, she has only been on MSN about 5 times, and when she talks to me, she seems really distant. Like, she used to be really happy and bubbly, and it took her 10 - 15 seconds to reply to my messages. But now it takes ~1.5 - 3 minutes. And she doesn't really try to continue the conversation.. she more or less just sort of "responds" to my questions, and waits till I say something.
All I really ever wanted was to be good friends with her. And I never once took our friendship for granted. How can I make her talk to me like she used to? Should I act distant as well, or like, tell her it's all right for her to talk to me normally? I don't know, but its kind of depressing me.
Thanks!