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  • Jun 8, 2008, 06:51 PM
    lisa19xx
    Yeah I agree its all confusing. It would mean the world to me to be pregnant. And that what you were saying about not trying that's the best way to get pregnant. If you are thinking about it. It doesn't seem to happen. Because you want it. Life can be a b**** :rolleyes: I think it sounds like you are. Because you haven't had your period. I doubt I am because I had mine even though it was weird and spotting too. But maybe that's just false hope. I hope so. Xx
  • Jun 8, 2008, 06:55 PM
    tosh09
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lisa19xx
    yeah i agree its all confusing. it would mean the world to me to be pregnant. and that what u were saying about not trying thats the best way to get pregnant. if u are thinking about it. it doesnt seem to happen. because u want it. life can be a b**** :rolleyes: i think it sounds like u are. because u havent had your period. i doubt i am because i had mine even though it was wierd and spotting too. but maybe thats just false hope. i hope so. xx


    Well I hope you are!! Because I know how you feel. I wish there were more ways to know. Besides a test and waiting!!
    And you know like I said that test could have been wrong! And if your period wasn't normal it is more likely that you could be you know. I read in a thing about implantation bleeding and it said something like if it I spotting at the time of your period it could be more confusing.. so in your case it is probably just confusing!
    I'm hoping you are and I'm hoping I am too.. babies are wonderful! :D
  • Jun 8, 2008, 06:57 PM
    lisa19xx
    Yeah they sure are. And there I go posting the same answer again lmao. I'm going to my bed just now I will come back on tomorrow and see if anyone else has answered our questions. Take care tosh hopefully see you again soon! Xxx :)
  • Jun 8, 2008, 06:59 PM
    tosh09
    All right and thanks for the chat it was nice to talk abou this!
    Talk to you later!
    Good night
  • Jun 8, 2008, 09:52 PM
    staples120703
    Tosh, Have you tried taking a blood pregnancy test yet, I know that it shows sooner than on a urine test and its a lot more accurate as well, I hope all goes well for both you and Lisa19xx... And Yes babies are wonderful :)
  • Jun 9, 2008, 05:37 AM
    weelynngraham
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tosh09
    so i had my period on the 9th of may and just a couple weeks later on the 24th of may i experienced some Very Light Milky pink colored discharge only when i wiped. it lasted about 5 days and then it has been nothing ever since. it is now june 1st and for just the past 2 days i have been experiencing some cramping in my low right side.(abdominal area) my period is to come soon so i have no idea if that was just something irregular for my period to come or if it it was implantation.. i have been having severe butterfly feelings in my stomach like an anxious feeling i guess you could call it.. and i dont know if it is because im anxious to know or if it has something to do with it. i would really like to know if i am experiencing implantation bleeding. :confused:

    Hi am going throw the same thing had my period on the 6th may then on the 29th of may I bleed again 4r 2 days my periods were due on the 3rd of June put they haven't came :(
  • Jun 9, 2008, 10:19 AM
    tosh09
    Looks like were kind of in the same boat.
    And no I haven't even though of the blood test! Lol I've been so wrapped up it didn't even come to me.
    But I think I'm going to just wait it out till the end of this week then I will go from there.
    Like I said it just keeps the waiting less stressful when I talk about it!
    And I appreciate EVERYTHING from you guys!
    Its nice to know there are still people out there that are concerned and are willing to help out.
    Thank you!
    I will still keep you guys updated!
  • Jun 9, 2008, 12:29 PM
    tosh09
    Okay guys.. soooo turns out I'm going to have to wait extra long now..
    I was looking at my period calculations and I was wrong..
    I'm not suppose to start my period till about the 13th of this month! _--grrrr--
    So now I'm totally lost and I don't know what to think anymore..
    I hope I'm pregnant..
    But for some reason I'm almost doubting it.
    Since I miscalculated my period and all..
    This is so upsetting:(
  • Jun 9, 2008, 01:40 PM
    DoulaLC
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tosh09
    okay guys.. soooo turns out im going to have to wait extra long now..
    i was looking at my period calculations and i was wrong..
    im not suppose to start my period till about the 13th of this month!! _--grrrr--
    so now im totally lost and i dont know what to think anymore..
    i hope im pregnant..
    but for some reason im almost doubting it.
    since i miscalculated my period and all..
    this is so upsetting:(

    Since your calculations were off, all the more reason why you'll have to just wait a bit longer and see what happens. I know it is sooooo frustrating when you are hoping to be pregnant and every possible sign makes you wonder if this is it.

    Lisa... the waiting begins for you as well. You could try a test. It is not uncommon for there to be some bleeding around the time of your usual period in early pregnancy. Often it will be shorter in duration and/or lighter in amount, but sometimes it is enough to make women think it is an acutal period. Of course, it could also be your period was just off. If you don't get a period that is normal for you, maybe try a test... or else wait until next month and see what happens. Behave as though you might be pregnant, which is a good idea anyway when you are trying to be, just in case.

    Good luck to you both!
  • Jun 9, 2008, 02:05 PM
    tosh09
    All right thank you!
    And since my calculations were off. Does that mean the time that I might have had implantation bleeding was more likely now?
  • Jun 9, 2008, 02:10 PM
    DoulaLC
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tosh09
    alright thank you!
    and since my calculations were off. does that mean the time that i might have had implantation bleeding was more likely now?

    The timing could be right for it, but much depends on when you tend to ovulate. You could try a hpt, sometimes you can get an accurate result several days before your period is due, but it becomes more accurate the closer you get, and, of course, once you are actually late.
  • Jun 9, 2008, 03:19 PM
    tosh09
    Yah. I'm just hoping I am.
    How much possible is it for me to be pregnant if me and my boyfriend have only used the "pull out" method.
    Like I said before we weren't trying
    But if it were to happen it wouldn't be a problem.
    And like usually a week before I start my period my breasts are EXTREMELY sore like they could not be touched what so ever.
    And right now they are only sore around them like by my armpit and underneath and on top.. but that's it..
    If its like a regular period it would hurt all over like the nipple and everything.
    I know basically all anyone can say is wait.. but its just too much to not talk about you know. Specially if it is running through your mind constantly
  • Jun 9, 2008, 03:34 PM
    DoulaLC
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tosh09
    yah. im just hoping i am.
    how much possible is it for me to be pregnant if me and my boyfriend have only used the "pull out" method.
    like i said before we werent trying
    but if it were to happen it wouldnt be a problem.
    and like usually a week before i start my period my breasts are EXTREMELY sore like they could not be touched what so ever.
    and right now they are only sore around them like by my armpit and underneath and on top.. but thats it..
    if its like a regular period it would hurt all over like the nipple and everything.
    i know basically all anyone can say is wait.. but its just too much to not talk about you know. specially if it is running through your mind constantly

    The effectiveness of the withdrawl method is roughly 80-85% percent... sometimes better, sometimes less so. As far as breast tenderness, for many women it will be the nipples that become very sensitive in early pregnancy, but obviously people will experience things differently and at different times.
    Like you said, all you can do is wait and see... and I know how hard it is not to think about it, so I won't even tell you to... :)
  • Jun 9, 2008, 04:00 PM
    tosh09
    Lol thanks!:)
    Yah and like before I said.. my nipples are sensitive but not like hurt..
    They have never been like that before.
    I don't know..
    But I will wait and see I guess..
    Though I still am starting to have my doubts.. but who knows maybe I will be surprised:D
  • Jun 12, 2008, 10:45 AM
    tosh09
    Kkkkkk guys tomorrows the day for my period to come..
    Boobs don't hurt at all anymore.. I can see my blue veins on them.. I don't know why.. but I have one on each boob that just runs acrossed it to my nipple.. (never noticed it before)..
    I've been having slight cramping in my right ovary for the past 2-3 days..
    Today I was cramping like I was going to start my period but I never did..
    And to be honest I never cramp before my period unless it is the day I start it.
    I never cramp in advance.
    And like I said before my boobs usually get VERYY VERYY extremely sore a week before my period.. that happens every month. But they are not sore.. they were for like a day not long ago. But it wasn't the usually feeling. And I'm not bloated at all like I usually would be before I start my period..
    This this normal?

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