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vyki · Nov 16, 2006, 02:49 PM

The planet can barely support the number of human beings on it as it is, so what is the point of having a child just so you won't be judged by other people?

SINGLE4 · Nov 16, 2006, 03:07 PM

Originally Posted by vyki

The planet can barely support the number of human beings on it as it is, so what is the point of having a child just so you won't be judged by other people?

That is maybe where murderers, rapists and molesters come in... not the innocent!!

LUNAGODDESS · Nov 16, 2006, 03:20 PM

Making plans on killing a child... is premeditated murder... short and simple... use birth control and understand this fact... birth control is not 100 percent effective... have a baby when you are ready... better yet have sex... when you are ready to have a baby... I am not going to be politically correct when it comes to abortion... this hurts me dearly to write...

rkgem71 · Nov 16, 2006, 03:46 PM

Honey, you need to do what you feel is right for you. I am very pro-choice, even though I have 5 kids. If I were ever in a situation where I knew I could not afford another child or give 100% to another child, I would consider abortion. Only you know what is best for you and your situation. A lot of woman go through this everyday, and there are many support groups out there to help you through it, if that is what you decide. Good luck to you Hun!!

vyki · Nov 16, 2006, 03:49 PM

Why is killing sperm and eggs (birth control) any different to abortion? To me the distinction between a potential life and life is 4 to 6 months after conception. To some people it's birth to some it's conception and to others (eg Catholics) it's as soon as sperm leaves the body.
Most people here do not consider birth control murder and would be criticised for making someone feel guilty about using it. I'm not saying abortion should be used as birth control but accidents happen and it's better not to have a child you can't give 100% to.
We all need to respect that everyone has their own opinion on what constitutes life.

JoeCanada76 · Nov 16, 2006, 04:05 PM

Abortion is murder.

vyki · Nov 16, 2006, 04:22 PM

Originally Posted by Jesushelper76

Abortion is murder.

Murder is the illegal killing of another human being so I'll think you'll find you are incorrect in your definition.

JoeCanada76 · Nov 16, 2006, 04:31 PM

A baby is a human being. When you can see eyes, nose and a whole body and a heart beat even at 5 weeks. Yes it is human. My defination is quite right.

vyki · Nov 16, 2006, 10:18 PM

My point is it's not illegal therefore not murder.

JoeCanada76 · Nov 17, 2006, 01:49 AM

Its still illegal in some places. Just because it is not illegal in others does not make it right.

vyki · Nov 17, 2006, 02:34 PM

Originally Posted by Jesushelper76

Its still illegal in some places. Just because it is not illegal in others does not make it right.

Yes I agree that it being legal does not make it right but you not agreeing with it does not make it wrong.
Are you so narrowminded that you cannot respect anybody else's opinion?

BIM · Nov 17, 2006, 02:56 PM

OK--First Off this gal ISN'T saying she is pregnant; she is saying that what if she got pregnant should she get an abortion and should she tell her boyfriend about it or just have it done.

I am Pro-Choice-I feel a woman should have a right to do with her body what she wishes. I feel it should be a mutual decision between the father & mother to have this done. I do not feel abortion should be a form of birth control--but I do feel that it should be available out there if a woman chooses to take this path.

'nough said.

LUNAGODDESS · Nov 17, 2006, 03:37 PM

There are two ways to live your life one is as through nothing is a miracle the other is as through every thing is a miracle... Albert Einstein

Website to visit... http://www.bible.ca/s-Abortion.htm

dbek · Nov 18, 2006, 12:01 AM

Originally Posted by unsure84

I haven't told anyone about this....if I had a baby now id would be so unhappy. I don't have the money or the time kto put into it.....same with my bf....we are not married yet, we are takin things one step at a time, if we had a baby it would screw up our plans. ya know? well if I turn out to be pregnant I'm considering an abortion....any words of advise???? should I juts have the abortion and not tell anyone, should I discuss it with him and just take the chance??

I think you have to make a choice that you will be able to live with all your life. For me their was never a right time or had the money to do it. But you know I would never change having my children, making the decision to have them.

Mommy Wanna Be · Nov 18, 2006, 12:15 AM

Originally Posted by unsure84

I haven't told anyone about this....if I had a baby now id would be so unhappy. I don't have the money or the time kto put into it.....same with my bf....we are not married yet, we are takin things one step at a time, if we had a baby it would screw up our plans. ya know? well if I turn out to be pregnant I'm considering an abortion....any words of advise???? should I juts have the abortion and not tell anyone, should I discuss it with him and just take the chance??

Don't have a abortion alone, this is a time where you should get all the support you can. Your boyfriend would probably much rather go through it with you then have you be alone and scared. If you do decide to have a abortion, just make sure you use protection until you are both financially stable and mentally ready. Good luck on whatever decision you make

BabyAbagail06 · Nov 18, 2006, 08:33 AM

Discuss it with him... that child did not ask to be brought in to this world it's not the baby's fault if I was you and I was pregnant I would have that baby... Think before you do this because if you get rid of the baby now will you be able to have another one a few years down the road!!

corriehac · Nov 20, 2006, 07:06 PM

Originally Posted by unsure84

I haven't told anyone about this....if I had a baby now id would be so unhappy. I don't have the money or the time kto put into it.....same with my bf....we are not married yet, we are takin things one step at a time, if we had a baby it would screw up our plans. ya know? well if I turn out to be pregnant I'm considering an abortion....any words of advise???? should I juts have the abortion and not tell anyone, should I discuss it with him and just take the chance??

I do not believe in abortion myself, I am a mother of 7 children, and I look into their little eyes how could have never have saw how pretty they are. But yet it is your choice. If you are unable to care for a child maybe someone could be blessed by the best gift of all life. Or maybe a family member can help you until you are ready to care for the little one yourself. If you must have an abortion please be more careful next time for this will be the hardest choice you will have to make. I say let him know. If he loves you he will work with you , and make your choice a lot easier. Good luck, Its your body, your mind , but it's a child soul, that you created.

BabyAbagail06 · Nov 22, 2006, 02:08 PM

That is true so please talk to your man and tell him what is on your mind other wise when you do decide to have a child you might not be able to have one... please talk to him now!! Good luck

worthbeads · Nov 22, 2006, 02:58 PM

If you want my opinion, abortion is wrong. If you aren't carful about sex and are willing to take that risk, you should have to deal with it. You should be held accountable for your own actions. But that's just my opinion mind you.

sarah louise · Nov 22, 2006, 06:26 PM

Don't do it there's people in this world. Wanting babies and if you are think about yourself no one else you will regret it OK :)