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inthebox · Jul 28, 2007, 03:37 PM

Kimberly66:

If you believe in and love God, he will never leave you nor forsake you[deut 31:6].
Pray for your husband.

Grace and Peace

bushg · Jul 28, 2007, 03:43 PM

Kimberly, It is OK for you to pray for your husband if you want to. But it is also OK for you to leave him. My great aunt prayed for her drunken, abusive husband for 50 years and she died praying for him. Good Luck, you deserve peace in your life.

Marily · Jul 31, 2007, 10:25 PM

inthebox that was a very nice answer :) an encouraging word cheers a person up

Universal Truth · Jul 31, 2007, 10:34 PM

I'd like to point out the assumption that everyone is making here... What makes your relationship abusive? Are you beating him? Is he beating on you? Are you emotionally draining to him? I think these questions should have been answered before one can assume who is to blame.

In regards to your original question... Yeah, you are probably going to go to hell, but not for divorce. I'm sure you have done other things, depending on your religion. In reality, look at all the people who believe they are going to heaven... Do you really want to spend an eternity with all of them? I mean, I know I wouldn't want to be neighbors in heaven with Jesus...

Could you imagine how his perfectly groomed lawn would look sitting next to my front yard full of concrete and hot rods? Not to mention, I like to stay up late and make a lot of noise. I'm betting our lord and savior is a morning person. So again, do you really want to spend an eternity with all of those people? I think we all know the answer to that.

Marily · Aug 1, 2007, 12:14 AM

Universal Truth I think you miss the concept of what heaven is like :)

go-ask-mom · Aug 1, 2007, 12:38 AM

Well I hope he's definitely wrong on the lord and savior being a morning person... because I sooooo am not!! Lmao! :D

Marily · Aug 1, 2007, 12:54 AM

He is wrong about the Saviour being a morning person, in heaven everyone will be in their theophany body

cal823 · Aug 1, 2007, 07:00 PM

Originally Posted by Universal Truth

Could you imagine how his perfectly groomed lawn would look sitting next to my front yard full of concrete and hot rods? Not to mention, I like to stay up late and make alot of noise. I'm betting our lord and savior is a morning person. So again, do you really want to spend an eternity with all of those people? I think we all know the answer to that.

When you go to heaven, you leave your faults and failings behind, so the people would be perfect neighbours.

deist · Sep 9, 2007, 01:44 PM

I don't believe in a hell. Why would God send anyone to an eternal hell for something we did within the frame of time, which is only temporary ?

cal823 · Sep 9, 2007, 09:56 PM

God does not send anyone to hell.
We all go to hell by default.
God has just provided a way to go someplace better, to escape the fate we actually deserve.

nikki_22 · Sep 15, 2007, 01:55 PM

Originally Posted by Kimberly66

I am in an abusive marriage with a Christian..... I plan to leave and divorce soon... will I be doomed for a divorce?

NO! You won't go to hell for divorcing an abusive man. In the Bible, when Jesus said "Any one who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery" he was referring to the old testament canon law of Moses. The original law stated that anyone could divorce anyone for any reason. Jesus was saying that marriage is sacred and not to be taken lightly. If this man is abusing you he is not honoring his wedding vows to love, honor, and cherish. God is a god of love and forgiveness. You are doing nothing wrong by leaving this man. The Bible says that your body is God's temple and is sacred. By abusing your body, this man is violating both God's law and mans. Please get help. Go to the police or a women's shelter. My friend was killed by her abusive husband after 3 horrible years of bruises and broken bones. Don't let that happen to you! Please leave this man. God would want you to stay alive and happy. Don't let the devil make you feel guilty about leaving this guy. Please get help, honey. God Bless You and Good Luck!
Love in Christ,
Nikki

cal823 · Sep 16, 2007, 09:58 PM

Anyway, you are never doomed, there's always forgiveness within your grasp. Always.

sad mom in law · Jul 10, 2008, 03:08 PM

Get out of this relationship while you can and don't take anything. Run! Before he killls you.

N0help4u · Jul 11, 2008, 01:49 PM

Hopefully she left and preparing to celebrate her first year of being free.

The Bible says for wives to submit to their husbands and husbands submit to God AND your wife HE broke that link on both ends!

0rphan · Jul 24, 2008, 09:47 AM

God see's everything and will know you had no choice

Blessings

In Sorrow · Sep 6, 2008, 09:31 PM

No you would not go to Hell as your husband is abusive. However the Bible does state that as long as your husband is alive, you shall not marry again. Only if he Dies you are free to marry. As if you get married again it would be considered Adultry on your part and on his if he is aware of it. So just remain single, just to be on the safe side, as I would not want to be put into the fires of hell, which it seems in this society most people are headed for anyway.

Credendovidis · Sep 7, 2008, 06:05 AM

Originally Posted by In Sorrow

as i would not want to be put into the fires of hell, which it seems in this society most people are headed for anyway.

Seems like the best part of humanity will be there than... IF there was a hell, of course...

:D

In Sorrow · Sep 7, 2008, 09:11 AM

Originally Posted by Credendovidis

Seems like the best part of humanity will be there than .... IF there was a hell, of course ....

:D

Well Technically Speaking the Holy Bible is supposed to be the Inspiried word of God, so if God talks about Hell I would believe it, Because God would not give us any wrong information in his Holy Bible, anything in the Bible, I would take it as Gospel. Coming from the Catholic Background that I was brought up in, and my father being a very Strict Prostant and was an advocat of the Holy Bible he preached it to me since I was a child.
And those teachings stood with me, he was from the Methodist Church. But since my mother was a Roman Catholic, I was Bapisted in the Catholic religion.

Credendovidis · Sep 7, 2008, 04:13 PM

Originally Posted by In Sorrow

Well Technically Speaking the Holy Bible is supposed to be the Inspiried word of God...

Yes. But no proof for the existence of that "God" entity exists.
"God" is entirely based on belief and on nothing else.

Note that "God" did not write the Bible. Good-willing human beings wrote the Bible!

That is why I stated :

IF there was a hell, of course...

And why I now add to that : IF there is a "God", of course...

:rolleyes:

cozyk · Dec 19, 2008, 10:36 AM

Originally Posted by Kimberly66

Wow- I've never even met any of you and I feel loved..lol. Thak you all for your support!!!! God Bless Each and Everyone !!

Wow, that was a very sweet comment. I'm so glad you are feeling better and that you can be more empowered. The first thing that came to my mind when I read your original post was... Hell No!;)