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    smoothy Posts: 25,492, Reputation: 2853
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    Sep 29, 2015, 03:02 PM
    There are LOTS of people that consider big numbers of "facebook friends" as some sort of badge of honor... and they don't even know most of them.

    Then there are people like me at the other extreme... who only gives a friend invite or accepts one if I know you.

    I also agree about other posts or threads revealing a better picture of the person.

    People are frequently "NICE" even if there is no interest beyond being cordial acquaintances. You can't assume every smile or look means they want to get in your pants or more. I'm nice to a LOT of people. Many of them I wouldn't be interested in a romantic anything with, or a romp in the hay even if I was single and in a long dry spell. Though many would still be quite good friends material.

    Sometimes it actually means nothing more than just being pleasant. You have to consider a lot of other things before you can assume otherwise.
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    Sep 30, 2015, 12:42 PM
    My question is what do you guys think? Can I trust that this guy really just enjoys talking with me or do you think his friendship is over with my son and he just wants to stay in touch with me. My son says the friendship is not over but they do not talk as much anymore. Sorry this is so long.
    Answer- As you just said that this guys enjoys talking with you, so yes he enjoys talking with you. Your son said that friendship is not over that means it is not over even though they don't talk that much, there could be so many other reasons for that, such as the guy is busy with his own family and friends, etc.
    Secondly, Its your Facebook, so if you feel comfortable accept the request, but if you feel very uncomfortable, or you feel like something is not right then listen to your head and don't except the request. Of course, you don't want to have any other relationship with this guy except being mom of one of his friend.
    Very simple, nothing complicated. Its just a Facebook request, I am sure you don't except FB request of every other person. Like wise, you don't have to if you feel uncomfortable.

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