Hi there,

I have 27, single
Somebody who is married told me that he makes love around 3 times everyday, for 3 hours.
When away from his wife, he masturbate also 3 times to 11 times a day.
Is this normal?
I can masturbate once a week, I find myself exhausted afterward, and my color goes little yellow.
I suffer from talasimia minor (blood cycle is 3 weeks instead of 3 months), is this the issue?

3 times, everyday, for 3 hours? That's 9 hours a day spent having sex. Married Guy is a liar, unless he's part of some cult where his wife does nothing but wait for him to come home and have sex with her. Nobody would have the energy for that.

You should talk to your doctor about your exhaustion. You should be able to reach climax more than once a week without a problem.

Why he needs to lie?
Can you assure no man can reach that count.
I just want to make sure!
Is one time a day, every day, normal?
Does it affect health?

A recent study of sex therapists listed the "optimal" time for making love, not including foreplay, at something less than 30 minutes. Despite what your porn movies show, satisfying sex doesn't have to last hours and hours for most people.

My partner would be annoyed all to hell if I demanded that.

Yes, we love sex. But we have lives too. If I can get an hour of her attention (including foreplay) 2-3 times a week I'm a happy boy. Sometimes it goes perfectly, sometimes its nothing close to that.

I did date a girl who wanted sex all the time, but even then, this guys claims would be extreme.

So... is it normal? I really don't think so. Is he lying? I'm not going to say yes or no. I've seem people who don't ever want sex and I've seen those who crave it constantly. Lots of in betweens there, you know. When it comes to sex, I just can't say "its not possible" for a lot of things...

But masturbating 3-11 times a day is pretty wild. If its true, the guy really has an over the top drive and stamina. If he's lying, he's got issues.

I'm voting issues.

Don't even try to "measure up"... this guy is either a liar/whack job (literally and figuratively) or a freak of nature.

Both happen.

Is this guy some kind of freak of nature? HELLLLOOOOO!!

I agree with This 8384. It's very unlikely that anyone would devote 9 hours per day to sex... so I would assume that he's lying.
Still, some people have very high sex drives, and desire release quite frequently. Once a week is a fairly low sex drive for a man, but not abnormally so. And if it's leaving you completely exhausted, you might want to see a doctor about that. Your blood disorder probably has something to do with it.

I had a friend who decided he wanted to beat the world record for most masturbation in one day. The record at the time was 20-something. He devoted the entire day to this task, and was very sore and tired by the end of the day... and told me about it in more detail than I cared to hear.
I'd assume that the level of use suggested by your friend isn't healthy, so best not to worry about it.

Kal

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Originally Posted by chubi

Hi there,
somebody who is married told me that he makes love around 3 times everyday, for 3 hours.
when away from his wife, he masturbate also 3 times to 11 times a day.
Is this normal?

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Hell no, this isn't normal. Sounds like an exaggeration, and no where near the truth. Unless his wife is made of rubber, and he's a freak. :eek:

Married guy is telling you some silly story, First when does he have time to each and sleep.

A person could masterbate several times a day ( I guess if they wanted to) and having sex every day ( for those in lust and heat) is not unheard of, but normally does not last.