I don't understand why a woman continues to date a married man. The woman my husband got hooked up with knew from the start and that never bothered her. My husband told her he would never leave me. They were sneaking around together for a year then I found out and he left her. He apologizes and apologizes, its been 10 months and I am still having a hard time with it. We celebrated our 41st anniversary while they were together and according to his cell phone bills, he called her 5 times on our anniversary. Its things like that I'm having an issue with. Why didn't he break it off with her or why did he even begin this whole sorted mess. The reason he gave me was because he didn't want to hurt her!! Our two grown children know, and it has really hurt our family life with them. I need to hear from others in my shoes.