Ask Me Help Desk - Trapped in a marriage

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Originally Posted by LATINS01

Do not ever stay in a relationship where the person you love batters you emotionally. This is sometimes worse then physical abuse because emotional negelect heals slower. It is unfortunate for your kids, but think if he negelects you, imagine the mental scars your kids could have seeing their mother go through this. He has taken you forgranted and probably is use to this treatment and it has become routine to him. You are a possession to him, and not a person anymore. Another human should never treat another in this way.. Leave even if it is difficult, because the freedom will give you strength and courage.
When a man, sees his life flash right in front of him because he is on a verge of losing his family he will either get angry or come to his senses.... An angry man is no man at all will lose all that he loves... If he comes to his senses then you now he has gotten lost, but through your love he has found his way back to your heart. That is when you both will find love in each other again and turn all the bad into good. Good luck

Fully agree!

This marriage is too much him, and not enough you. He does as he pleases, and you go inward and suffer. I can only imagine what the conversations are about in your house. You really need some serious counselling whether he gets mad or not. He really should be there with you. This is essential before you make a decision I think, and would help you express your feelings, your rage and displeasure. I can hear your pain, and am sure you have never vented or let go of the trauma he has put you through. Let a professional guide you through this process, so you can make a decision that works for you as its about getting healthy, and being able to find your happiness. Much luck!

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Originally Posted by gypsy456

Fully agree !!

Do you think you could me some advice on my situation... I need someone perspective, especially a woman's honest point of view. Thanks.