My husband says he loves me and I know he does but how do I make him really truly want me again. I want him not to even look at another women without thinking of me. Yeah-Yeah I know that's not likely----he's a man. When we began our relationship we couldn't get enough of one another-----I want it back. He works construction he is around women and yes some of them are okay----but some are dirt-leg hoes. For instance he is friends with a women and I know this but have never met her and she has just broke up with her husband and needs a friend----he has made it clear to me that she is older them him and she is not his type. But I am a women and I know how women are ----need a shoulder to cry on. I don't like or can I say can't stand this fact. He wants me to meet her so if something was really going on he wouldn't want me to, I think. Help me out here!! We've been together for almost 9 yrs in August---he chased me for about 2 just to get a chance with me. I want him to want me like that again. Men give me a hint---women please give me your opinion. Thanks

Do not set up somebody by making them jealous. That is just not right and would be your downfall.

Marriage changes, people changes. What is important that you both still love each other.

If you want more surprise or more excitement or just want to feel closer to this person. Let your partner know. Talk and communicate will only help the situation. It might be rough at times and good at times but life is never easy.

Remember communication very important. We can not read minds.


Joe