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  • Apr 22, 2017, 03:49 AM
    Sarfaraz Ahmed
    Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu
    Dear Sir

    I have got married on 9th Oct. 2014. Recently on the 7th of Feb. 2017 my wife died in a fire accident at her mothers house & we have newborn baby girl who`s age is 5 month old now Masha Allah. After my wife`s death my father in law asked me to marry his second daughter who is 2 year younger than my late wife. Then I have started doing Istikhara but I was not sure about the result of Istikhara but I had doubt that I have seen my late wife in dream & she was tellming me not to marry my sister in law. I am still doubtful about that dream. Finally I have done the marriage with my sister in law Alhamdullah. Now though she is taking very good care of my daughter, but I am not having a good time with her. She is always disobeying me,

    Please guide me

    Regards
  • Apr 22, 2017, 03:58 AM
    talaniman
    Sorry for your loss.

    How does she disobey you? Did you expect her to be the same as your late wife? Be honest, you were looking for someone to replace your wife, and take care of your son, and you have that. The rest has to be worked on over time and in this you must lead by example down a good path, and not one of forced obedience.

    Why is there no joy in learning the ways of each other?

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