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arnimal7 · Mar 9, 2009, 01:04 PM

Hello Sherrif, I'm here to rescue the ladies;)

starbuck8 · Mar 9, 2009, 01:06 PM

Originally Posted by Justwantfair

Domestic Violence abuse victim...

Ready to lie to protect her husband. Can some others take a peak...

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ml#post1594063

On it! I'm sure you guys know I will NOT let this one go without a comment or two. :mad:

Stringer · Mar 9, 2009, 01:21 PM

Originally Posted by arnimal7

Hello Sherrif, I'm here to rescue the ladies;)

So, little lady, you just walk into my office and announce that you are here to 'rescue' them thar varmits?

Well, Missy, it sounds as though you are thinkin' that they are 'patriots' or sumtin? Like they don't even deserve to be here under lock and key??

Well Pilgrim, that ain't how it is done in these parts... no sirreeeee!:rolleyes: Put your hands behind your back hon... Hey Deputy! Do we have handcuffs small enough for baby doll wrists?

darkvision · Mar 9, 2009, 01:21 PM

Originally Posted by Justwantfair

Domestic Violence abuse victim...

Ready to lie to protect her husband. Can some others take a peak...

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ml#post1594063

Thank you for the thread, wish I had found it earlier. I hate scum like that, I just hope she listens and gets out of dodge intact.

HistorianChick · Mar 9, 2009, 01:22 PM

Originally Posted by Stringer

So, little lady, you just walk into my office and announce that you are here to 'rescue' them thar varmits?

Well, Missy, it sounds as though you are thinkin' that they are 'patriots' or sumtin? Like they don't even deserve to be here under lock and key??????

Well Pilgrim, that ain't how it done in these parts....no sirreeeee!:rolleyes:

And this here little lady is rather partial to fuzzy, wittle, Wabbits... ;)

JudyKayTee · Mar 9, 2009, 01:27 PM

Originally Posted by Justwantfair

Domestic Violence abuse victim...

Ready to lie to protect her husband. Can some others take a peak...

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ml#post1594063

Thanks for posting - shocking but similar things posted all the time. How sad.

Justwantfair · Mar 9, 2009, 01:29 PM

Yeah, just concerned, she seems to somewhat get it, then came back to say she won't testify against him.

Hoping since the state is filing without her, they may have enough evidence. It is so often the victims won't procecute their abusers.

Look at the Rihanna case, that has me all up in arms also...

::sigh:: can't save them all.

darkvision · Mar 9, 2009, 01:37 PM

Originally Posted by Justwantfair

Yeah, just concerned, she seems to somewhat get it, then came back to say she won't testify against him.

Hoping since the state is filing without her, they may have enough evidence. It is so often the victims won't procecute their abusers.

Look at the Rihanna case, that has me all up in arms also...

::sigh:: can't save them all.

I agree. It's the one thing I've always liked about my friends from high school, many of them had abusive parents, so if they saw a man hit a women... well lets just say the last time I heard about something like that it went something like this: friend A is driving friend B and girlfriend. Friend B hits girlfriend, Friend A stop car, drags friend B out beats him to a bloody pulp(think 3 broken ribs broken nose + scrapes and bruises). Then leaves friend B their to get a ride with a different friend to the hospital. Personally I think he got off light.

As stated hope she listens, not just fer her sake but for the rest of their sakes as well.

adam_89 · Mar 9, 2009, 01:39 PM

Hey Everyone! Guess what Justy?

adam_89 · Mar 9, 2009, 01:41 PM

Hey Stringer! Hey Darkvision! You must be new around here. I know you beat me to the jail though. I'm just a passer through as always.

adam_89 · Mar 9, 2009, 01:41 PM

I didn't mean the new part toward you Stringer. How come you aren't invisible like the rest?

JudyKayTee · Mar 9, 2009, 01:43 PM

Originally Posted by darkvision

i agree. Its the one thing ive always liked about my friends from high school, many of them had abusive parents, so if they saw a man hit a women...well lets just say the last time i heard about something like that it went something like this: friend A is driving friend B and girlfriend. Friend B hits girlfriend, Friend A stop car, drags friend B out beats him to a bloody pulp(think 3 broken ribs broken nose + scrapes and bruises). then leaves friend B their to get a ride with a different friend to the hospital. Personally i think he got off light.

as stated hope she listens, not just fer her sake but for the rest of their sakes as well.

Sorry, but I don't think getting violent with a violent person teaches anyone anything - women NEED to file charges and keep insisting on pressing charges, get people arrested, find an advocate, that's what will change things. Friend A is very fortunate he isn't doing some hard time because the Court doesn't necessarily see the reason behind the beating.

All women don't have someone who will come along and beat up their abuser - but all women DO have access to the Court system. And if the Police don't listen, then you come back with friends and try again. And maybe somebody else doesn't get beaten up because that one woman took a stand.

This is very dangerous quasi-legal advice. I realize this is not the legal board but this is not a course of action to be recommended.

Stringer · Mar 9, 2009, 01:43 PM

Originally Posted by adam_89

I didn't mean the new part toward you Stringer. How come you aren't invisible like the rest?

YOU are always welcome Adam... more fun with you here also...

starbuck8 · Mar 9, 2009, 01:44 PM

Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Sorry, but I don't think getting violent with a violent person teaches anyone anything - women NEED to file charges and keep insisting on pressing charges, get people arrested, find an advocate, that's what will change things. Friend A is very fortunate he isn't doing some hard time because the Court doesn't necessarily see the reason behind the beating.

All women don't have someone who will come along and beat up their abuser - but all women DO have access to the Court system. And if the Police don't listen, then you come back with friends and try again. And maybe somebody else doesn't get beaten up because that one woman took a stand.

I'm crying my eyes out! I want to take her and shake her!!

adam_89 · Mar 9, 2009, 01:45 PM

Well. I am off for the day. See you guys tomorrow! Bye!

Stringer · Mar 9, 2009, 01:45 PM

Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Sorry, but I don't think getting violent with a violent person teaches anyone anything - women NEED to file charges and keep insisting on pressing charges, get people arrested, find an advocate, that's what will change things. Friend A is very fortunate he isn't doing some hard time because the Court doesn't necessarily see the reason behind the beating.

All women don't have someone who will come along and beat up their abuser - but all women DO have access to the Court system. And if the Police don't listen, then you come back with friends and try again. And maybe somebody else doesn't get beaten up because that one woman took a stand.

This is very dangerous quasi-legal advice. I realize this is not the legal board but this is not a course of action to be recommended.

Agreed Judy... smart way to handle it... common sense applies... although common sense seems quite rare at times. (Sad)

JudyKayTee · Mar 9, 2009, 01:46 PM

Originally Posted by starbuck8

I'm crying my eyes out! I wanna take her and shake her!!!!!

I know - and I think a lot of women have experienced some type of abuse in their lifetime so this is particularly painful to read.

When I worked in a matrimonial practice I was shocked at the amount of abuse out there - everything, including sexual abuse, often at the hands of the person who "loves" you the most.

Shudder.

(And I'm crying right along with you.)

Stringer · Mar 9, 2009, 01:46 PM

Originally Posted by adam_89

Well. I am off for the day. See you guys tomorrow! Bye!

Wow... well, thanks for the visit buddy. Hurry back...

JudyKayTee · Mar 9, 2009, 01:48 PM

Originally Posted by Stringer

Agreed Judy...smart way to handle it...common sense applies...although common sense seems quite rare at times. (Sad)

Thanks - it's about stopping the cycle, not beating up one abuser.

I appreciate the kind words on this sad, troubling topic.

Justwantfair · Mar 9, 2009, 01:49 PM

Originally Posted by adam_89

Hey Everyone! Guess what Justy?

What Adam... :D

You remembered you love me today??