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  • Mar 3, 2015, 03:33 PM
    xxBitterMindxx
    I Want To Get Adopted
    I'm 14 years old living with my mom. She doesn't act like one. For years she's put me down so I ran away and when I came back she did a lot. Even slapped me. She's locked me in a room literally like I was a prisoner. One day my [Brother] who's 17 and dating a 14 year old heard something about me with an 18 year old but me and the 18 year old met when he was 17 and I was 14 my [mom] got on me talking about dumb crap but me and the 18 year old never dated. She never yelled at my brother for dating a 14 year old but yelled at me for being friends with an 18 year old which is screwed up to me.

    Me and my brother got into a fight and my sister jumped in and helped me and my uncle broke us up and all my mom did was sit back and laugh and said yea he should have got on that axx. I hate her. There's this lady. She's my biological aunties ex girlfriend but she's still like family to us and her and my uncle are still friends. She said she doesn't mind me living with her its up to my [mom] and my [mom] is going to say no and I already know that yea I'm a little troublemaker but its all petty and stupid stuff but its not that serious to the point where I wish I she was dead or that I have to run away. I want to get adopted.

    Anyway is there a way where I can get adopted?
  • Mar 3, 2015, 05:38 PM
    tickle
    No not really
  • Mar 3, 2015, 06:59 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    No, to be adopted, children and family services would have to take you out of the home for abuse. Then after one or two years, of working normally with your mother on parenting classes, if they decide her home unfit, you may be eligible, but no one will want to adopt a 14 year old, or older, so you would live in foster homes till you were 18.

    I will assume you are a girl, Your brother can not get pregnant, you can, so your running away shows you are not mature and of course you get treated like a prisoner, children who do not listen and run away, get treated like that in any family.

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