Originally Posted by
SSgt USAF
I know your pissed off at him and want to get back at him but do you really want a monthly reminder of this man such as alimony? Just sever the ties and move on. I was in Iraq for 6 months and came home to a wife (now ex wife) who was 1 month pregnant. I walked away with my son and never looked back. Having nothing to do with her and no reminders is the best thing I could ask for. Obviously the guy is a dirtbag, so let him move on with his crappy life. You are bigger than that. :)
Some women need alimony/spousal support to survive, particularly women who haven't worked and have been dependent. Good you could walk away. Good you could take your son with you - I've read your various other posts.
And, as everyone said, fault does not enter into the amount of alimony/spousal support paid.
This is a legal board, not a support board, so please post legal info and be able to back it up with cases, citations, websites.