OK so I'm a 17 year old male turing 18 in three months and I'm dating a 14 year old freshmen girl turning 15 in 2 months, I was wondering weather an intamate relationship is out of the questions? For example kissing, holding hands the works I understand the age of consent in Washington is 16 and ia understand sex under 18 is wrong as well, but does that mean she jail bait? And if are parents are OK with us dating is it still legal?

Just because her parents are OK with you dating doesn't mean they are OK with your violating their daughter. If you two have sex, you can be charged with rape or sexual assault. You just need to weight whether it's worth it or not. If you ask me, it's not.

I'm in the same boat. I'm 17 and I'm with a 14 yr old girl. I have already decided that I won't do anything with her beyond kissing until she is 16. You should do the same. It isn't worth it if you two do break up and she charges you. And if you are the kind of guy who is only looking for sex, then look elsewhere

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Originally Posted by JamesD1991

im in the same boat. im 17 and im with a 14 yr old girl. i have already decided that i wont do anything with her beyond kissing until she is 16. you should do the same. it isnt worth it if you two do break up and she charges you. and if you are the kind of guy who is only looking for sex, then look elsewhere

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This question is asked all the time and maybe you have an answer - what does a 17 year old see in a 14 year old? What is the common ground?

I'm assuming he would be a senior in high school and she would be a freshman?