My family bought a dalmatian and this Monday we found out he has cancer and will die by Sunday I don't know what to do he is my best friend we adopted him at age 9 he is a mush and doesn't deserve this.Help?

I'm so sorry that this is happening in your life, nickeknew! One thing that you can do is try to give him as much love and comfort for the time that has left here!

I'm sure that there will be others who will come along to give you advice and to help you to get through this! :)

Thank you he was the first dog Ive ever had so it really hurts:(

I know that it really hurts! I have had pets all of my life. It really hurt when it was time for any of them to go!

I'm going to invite some people to your thread who will be really great in helping you through this. They might not all be aware of your thread yet.

Ok?

Thanks but its weird the cancer formed a ball in his neck but in the past 2 days its gotten smaller and he's eating again. A miracle?

Could be. Are you definitely sure that he's going to die as quickly as you think that he is then?

Im still young so it confuses me it annoys though because he doesn't deserve this Ive been preying every night for him.

I'm calling in some others for you now, nickeknew! Prayer can be really helpful! Please keep praying! :)

God is both kind and cruel but for good reasons I hope he answers me.

There are others that will be helping you with this, nickeknew! They might not all come tonight, but I'm sure most of them will be here sometime in the next day or two.

God will answer you, but it might not be the answer that you want. Remember, that your pet is already pretty old for being a dog...

You will get lots of support, that I promise to you!

God's Love and Peace to You! :)

Do you have any images of your dog that you could post on this thread? That might help people in their positive thoughts and prayers that they will send your way!

Unfortunately no I'm on a psp

No person or animal deserves cancer. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. I'm so sorry about what you are going through. It can't be easy. If you are a pet owner it's something that you will go through, eventually. And I'm so sorry. The best thing that you can do is not worry when your animal will die regardless of his condition or age. Love him and play with him just as you normally would. Pets can sense sadness, so be happy that he's here now, and make the most of your time together.

Unfortunately I'm 13 so it hit me hard I haven't slept all week

Nickelnew,
I know it's horrible to have a sick pet and to lose that pet hurts.
I hope your prayers are answered and your dog gets to spend more time with you than originally expected.
Make every day count and add to all the good memories you already have with your dog so you'll have lots more to remember him with.

Hey there Nickeknew, you are right that God is kind. Sometimes in His kindness, He gives us a wonderful friend such as your dog. What is your dog's name? I just lost my dog Emily. She was a black Labador Retreiver. I had taught her sign language, she would wait for me at the gate, she would stand right by my side when I was alone and very ill and not lie down again until I got back into bed. It is as hard to lose a pet as it is to lose a friend sometimes because pets are so loyal. I believe that God gave this dog for you to love and to allow you to see how much you can love and gave you to your dog, so your dog could have some much needed love and acceptance.

I will also join you in praying for your dog to recover. It is at this juncture that we must trust that the best thing will be done for this precious pet. I know that doesn't make your heart hurt any less but sometimes the decision is not in our hands. I know that being aware of the cancer can be frightening for you. Sometimes also, what we perceive to be cruel, in not God's Hand but just that we live in an imperfect world and there is sickness but as you say, there is also healing. We will join you in praying for that!

Knowing the love you have for this dog, tells me you have a lot to give. Perhaps God is opening your eyes to that fact, that you have a lot of love to give to other animals, people and to the world. We have to nurture love to help it to grow. Whether your little loved pet gets well or passes on, you have learned that sometimes it hurts to love deeply but it is worth every minute of it. Who else could love your pet as much as you? I know this hurts you and I am so sorry. Our hearts are sad at times but later, we remember the joys our pets or friends or family has brought us and that we have been able to give to them and that restores our joy and the smile on our faces.

Keep us posted please!

I actually plan on dedicating part of my wall to pictures of him

That's sweet. You know what else is cool? Make your dog a Myspace or Facebook! My doggy has one, she has all sorts of doggy friends on there it's cute!

See, now they have started to arrive here! I'm so glad that there are people who are willing to, sometimes almost on only a moments notice, to help out on a thread! :)

His name is Snoopy and thanks for everything the pound was going to put him to sleep so at least we gave him 2 more years

I might do that thanks Ive spoiled him the last 2 days

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His name is Snoopy and thanks for everything the pound was going to put him to sleep so at least we gave him 2 more years

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THat's fantastic. You saved him! I envy you for that!! Snoopy is an awesome name for what sounds like an awesome dog!

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See, now they have started to arrive here! I'm so glad that there are people who are willing to, sometimes almost on only a moments notice, to help out on a thread! :)

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That's what we are here for, after all! I will never leave this site. This is my home online.

Thanks he is a mush. Luckily he's not in pain

I'm sorry, I don't know what a mush is... I'm glad he's not in pain.

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That's what we are here for, after all! I will never leave this site. This is my home online.

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Yeah, it's my main home online too! Many, incredibly caring people here! :)

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Yup.

It means he just loves everyone and this is my new home I found it 2 days ago

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Thanks he is a mush. Luckily hes not in pain

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Snoopy is a great name! I love it! There are blessings in all things and the fact that he is not in pain is indeed a blessing! When you have time, make a little journal about Snoopy and about your feelings you had when you got Snoopy and things you have experienced as you have grown to love Snoopy and the feelings you are experiencing now. It is a great way of reliving some wonderful moments in your mind as you remember things to write down. It is also sort of a Memorial to Snoopy while Snoopy is still here to be with you. You can read it to Snoopy and have that share time. Some may not agree but I think my Emily knew every word I said to her!! :p I bet your Snoopy does also! Just let Snoopy know how much love you have for him each day you have whether a day, a week, a month or years to come!!

Thanks and sorry I'm slow, I'm crying

We know that you're feeling bad. That's why we are here to help you through this. No need to apologize, we understand!

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You have been a great help thanks

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Snoopy is a great name! I love it! There are blessings in all things and the fact that he is not in pain is indeed a blessing! When you have time, make a little journal about Snoopy and about your feelings you had when you got Snoopy and things you have experienced as you have grown to love Snoopy and the feelings you are experiencing now. It is a great way of reliving some wonderful moments in your mind as you remember things to write down. It is also sort of a Memorial to Snoopy while Snoopy is still here to be with you. You can read it to Snoopy and have that share time. Some may not agree but I think my Emily knew every word I said to her!!! :p I bet your Snoopy does also! Just let Snoopy know how much love you have for him each day you have whether a day, a week, a month or years to come!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Writing a journal sounds like a wonderful idea! I wish that I'd done that for all of the pets that I have had. If you do write a journal, it would be best to start on something like that before you forget about some things...

This feels great getting my feelings out

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It usually does. That's why we all love this site. You can feel free to let your feelings out. And gain acceptance, appreciation, caring, friendship, admiration, etc. People here are great. You'l fit in well!

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Thanks and sorry im slow, im crying

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Cry all you need to... we all do! Just know you are not alone in how you are feeling. Don't worry about posting fast either. Some of us will be here for hours, some will drift off to sleep for the night but we will be back tomorrow to check on how things are going for you Nickeknew.

It feels odd being the youngest but thanks I can't get it out of my mind

Thanks anyone can feel free to leave if u want ill give a day to day basis

When it comes to loving and sharing, it doesn't matter our age. You sound like such a great individual and I am happy you joined us!!

Thanks this site is great