Susan, if all human efforts seem to be failing you, this might be the time to look for some Higher help. If you possibly can, take some time for yourself in silence and reach within your heart for the next step to take in this situation. If you still cannot find the answer, let go and allow Higher Power to work the matter out for you in Divine Perfection.

I feel for your situation, as I know you feel trapped, but its time you made a decision, and stick to it. I know nothing of the laws, and traditions of your country, but you must make a choice, between what you want, and what everyone else wants for you. Either way there will be consequences to pay, so make a decision, and have a plan to accomplish it. The counsel of a trusted friend, would be great, if there is one in your life. Me, I make a plan to get what I want.

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Originally Posted by jennyrena

sweetheart just the fact that you would want to take your life is enough to make me say please get some help to get your life back on track.i know your probably so confused between your family, customs , your true love and our advice. I'm sorry for you. i don't want to advise you to do anything that would cause you trouble but i can say that no matter if your in America, India, or china love makes the world go round. it is the greatest thing to have in life money can't buy it and it's worth the price you pay. and i believe in respecting your parents but i have also learned that no one is going to get you some happiness but you.be strong, be courageous, be loved. and for goodness sakes don't get pregnant by someone you hate. love and prayers

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Hi, My position is getting worst than before.. plesae guide me. He is torchering ike any thing
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Originally Posted by talaniman

I feel for your situation, as I know you feel trapped, but its time you made a decision, and stick to it. I know nothing of the laws, and traditions of your country, but you must make a choice, between what you want, and what everyone else wants for you. Either way there will be consequences to pay, so make a decision, and have a plan to accomplish it. The counsel of a trusted friend, would be great, if there is one in your life. Me, I make a plan to get what I want.

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Hi, My position is getting worst than before.. plesae guide me. He is torchering ike any thing

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Originally Posted by talaniman

I feel for your situation, as I know you feel trapped, but its time you made a decision, and stick to it. I know nothing of the laws, and traditions of your country, but you must make a choice, between what you want, and what everyone else wants for you. Either way there will be consequences to pay, so make a decision, and have a plan to accomplish it. The counsel of a trusted friend, would be great, if there is one in your life. Me, I make a plan to get what I want.

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Hi, My position is getting worst than before.. plesae guide me. He is torchering like any thing

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

It is obvious you did not wish to give it a chance, while I do not beleive in arrange marriages, in many cultures this is the norm, and actually many work better than those in the US where it is done for what peole call love, which is more often lust and sexual desires.

A person should not have a lover while married, and if they decide to marry yes they should commit and try and make it work.
And of course you could have had sex with him, but beyond that it appears you made no effort what so ever to try and make it work..
In your culture this would have been considered a disrepect of your husband, and your parents and most likely his parents.

Since you are married, already, if his was in the US, I would say you get a mrriage couselor and try and make your mariage work.

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Hi, My position is getting worst than before.. plesae guide me. He is torchering ike any thing
Susan

Susan, you are obviously very upset. What can we do to help? I don't know the laws in India, I don't know how easy it is to dissolve a marriage where you are.

I can't think of any further advice that you haven't already been given.

I wish you all the best and hope that everything works our for you.

Take care.