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Originally Posted by friends 13

He said he wanted to have a family with me and marry me.

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The family has been started. When's the wedding?

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When's the wedding?

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Not long before the divorce.

Wedding first, babies later.

There will be no wedding. He is already treating her poorly.
You need to leave this guy. Do you have parents you can move back home with or someplace else to go? This will not get better.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

The family has been started. When's the wedding?

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He said he needs money to buy me a ring first

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Originally Posted by friends 13

So I let things go cause I just want to be happy.

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And are you happy?

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Originally Posted by friends 13

He said he needs money to buy me a ring first

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No, he doesn't!!

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

There will be no wedding. He is already treating her poorly.
You need to leave this guy. Do you have parents you can move back home with or someplace else to go? This will not get better.

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Yes,I do have parents to go to. I'm only 23.

How is he going to afford a "ring" when he is paying child support to the other child?

You should have gotten the ring and said the vows before you agreed to have his child. Now you are stuck between a rock and a hard place. Do you accept his abuse or do you move on?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

And are you happy?

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No I'm not happy not anymore. And what do you mean he doesn't need money to buy me a ring? Is he just lying to me :(

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Originally Posted by friends 13

He said he needs money to buy me a ring first

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How is he buying things for the baby? A ring does not cost that much.
How old are you? This guy is not going to marry you. He would have married you before you got pregnant if that was his intention.

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Originally Posted by friends 13

No I'm not happy not anymore. And what do you mean he doesn't need money to buy me a ring? Is he just lying to me :(

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Yes, he is lying to you and stringing you along. No one needs a ring first to get married.

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Originally Posted by J_9

How is he going to afford a "ring" when he is paying child support to the other child?

You should have gotten the ring and said the vows before you agreed to have his child. Now you are stuck between a rock and a hard place. Do you accept his abuse or do you move on?

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You are exactly right I need to move on

Yes take your baby and move on. Make sure he pays child support.

Ask your grandmother for a ring. Tell him it was 'handed down'. Then he has a ring and lost an excuse.

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Originally Posted by N0help4u

Ask your grandmother for a ring. Tell him it was 'handed down'. Then he has a ring and lost an excuse.

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Or use a paper ring off a cigar. Or an inexpensive one from Walmart.