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tdc7839 · May 24, 2010, 12:15 PM

Our chemistry seemed very good. We kissed on the second date and then again when I left. Now I'm back home and can't stop thinking about her. I'm not sure if she saw it as just a "Vegas" hookup thing or more. It's been two days since I left, is it too soon to call? I wear my heart on my sleeve and if I like someone I usually let them know, but this is a little different because of the distance between us (3.5 hours and it was Vegas). Any advise or insight would be appreciated.

Homegirl 50 · May 24, 2010, 12:22 PM

Call her up and say hello.
It may have just been Vegas. How long were two there each other and how old are you?
It could be that it was really cool and you're still thinking about it, but it was only a weekend.

ohsohappy · May 24, 2010, 12:37 PM

Honestly, you'll never know unless you try.
At the worst it will have just been a vegas thing and you can write it off as a nice weekend. Good memories with no further developments.
If it does go well, then that's great. :)

SimpleguyJoe · May 25, 2010, 12:04 AM

I usually wouldn't use relationship and Vegas in the same sentence but just because it took place in sin city doesn't mean it can't be real.

Maybe ask to meet again for another weekend?

jmjoseph · May 25, 2010, 01:17 AM

Just call. She gave you the number right? Then use it.

I have to ask, are you male or female?

Because most guys would have called by now.

I wish · May 25, 2010, 06:51 AM

Give it a shot. The worst that can happen is that she rejects you, but you won't have to stop wondering. The best that can happen is that you keep in touch, possibility see each other more often and start a new relationship.

This is a low risk, high reward scenario.

Kitkat22 · May 25, 2010, 07:03 AM

Yeah and remember, "what happenes in Vegas, stays in Vegas". That is unless you're married.

Devorameira · May 25, 2010, 01:53 PM

I'd call. You won't know how interested she is unless you do.

Good luck!

talaniman · May 25, 2010, 03:49 PM

I would just call and find out.

Kitkat22 · May 25, 2010, 03:57 PM

Originally Posted by talaniman

I would just call and find out.

Call her!

friend4u178 · May 25, 2010, 06:18 PM

Nothing ventured nothing gained Buddy. She may be sitting there thinking " I wonder why he hasn't called"

Only 1 way to find out.

Devorameira · May 26, 2010, 05:47 AM

Have you called her yet?? Times a wasting!

Kitkat22 · May 26, 2010, 12:01 PM

Originally Posted by Devorameira

Have you called her yet??? Times a wasting!

Do it... I dare ya:D

tdc7839 · May 27, 2010, 11:51 AM

Originally Posted by friend4u178

Nothing ventured nothing gained Buddy. She may be sitting there thinking " I wonder why he hasn't called"

Only 1 way to find out.

Thanks for all the advice. I did call her and found out that we are on the same page. However, I sent a "hope you had a great day" text two days ago and haven't received a reply or phone call. Should I just wait until she text me back? Or, give it a couple more days and call or text her? Thanks, girls!;)

Kitkat22 · May 27, 2010, 12:02 PM

Originally Posted by tdc7839

Thanks for all the advice. I did call her and found out that we are on the same page. However, I sent a "hope you had a great day" text two days ago and haven't received a reply or phone call. Should I just wait until she text me back? Or, give it a couple more days and call or text her? Thanks, girls!;)

Wait till you hear from her.. Good Luck!:)

I wish · May 27, 2010, 12:07 PM

Maybe she doesn't have a text plan. Why not call her again instead?

tdc7839 · May 27, 2010, 12:10 PM

Originally Posted by I wish

Maybe she doesn't have a text plan. Why not call her again instead?

No, she does have a plan. We have texted before. Thx.

I wish · May 27, 2010, 12:12 PM

I still think that you should call her. Your last message to her was: "I hope you had a great day". It's not like you asked a question for her to respond to. What do you expect her to say?

I'd say, call her again and keep getting to know each other better. If she wanted to talk to you, she would pick up nor matter when you call. If she wanted to ignore you, it won't matter how many days you wait, she will ignore you anyway.

Kitkat22 · May 27, 2010, 12:13 PM

Originally Posted by tdc7839

No, she does have a plan. We have texted before. Thx.

Then wait for her to call you or call and ask her if she is interested in getting to know each other better. What have you got to lose?;)

tdc7839 · May 27, 2010, 12:45 PM

Originally Posted by I wish

I still think that you should call her. Your last message to her was: "I hope you had a great day". It's not like you asked a question for her to respond to. What do you expect her to say?

I'd say, call her again and keep getting to know each other better. If she wanted to talk to you, she would pick up nor matter when you call. If she wanted to ignore you, it won't matter how many days you wait, she will ignore you anyway.

Ah, good point, it wasn't anything she had to reply to. I will call her again.
However, the next time I text her, which would be more attractive to receive? Something like, "You just popped into my head so, hi...now please stay out of there." Or, more sincere like, " Was just thinking about you". I don't want to sound too needy. Thx girls!