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  • Nov 19, 2019, 11:56 AM
    Is my ex still hung up on me?
    My ex and I broke up almost a month ago and Iím tired of people telling me to move on because I mostly have but he was amazing to me. He said I was everything he needed but we broke up because of distance. He would come visit me as much as possible and lived almost 2 hours away. We agreed to be friends although we were gonna try adding benefits but we met up about 2 weeks ago and I said I didnít wanna have sex because I still had feelings and he said he understood. The day we met up he texted me asking how I was doing and stuff and liked one of my messages and later that day when we met, it was awkward at first but we eventually kissed and he gave me a hickey after I told him this guy invited me to a party and he said that he was probably ugly. Itís been a few weeks and I texted him not too long ago saying I missed his ďdĒ and he texted back in 4 minutes saying ďI thought we decided that wasnít what we wanted lolĒ and I said I didnít wanna have sex but I missed playing around and he didnít answer. Yet heís viewed all my Snapchat stories so I guess the question is why does he still view my Snapchatís and still have my number if Iím annoying him or confusing him, why wonít he just block or delete me? Iím going out with a new guy this week who asked ME out by the way so Iím not still worried about my ex I just wanna know whatís going
  • Nov 19, 2019, 03:07 PM
    What's going on with him or you? You can't be a couple and you can't have sex, so I don't know why you two just don't block each other and get on with your lives instead of keeping feelings alive with this contacting stuff. Make a clean break and tell him to do the same and be done and stop teasing and titillating yourselves.

    Young people especially like to leave the door open just in case the ex or them changes their mind and just end up confused evenn more, instead of just cutting all contact and letting the emotional dust settle. That's what's going on.
  • Nov 19, 2019, 09:41 PM
    Homegirl 50
    If he is not answering your text and you are seeing someone else, it means nothing is going on. Block him and move on.

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