You need enough time to tell.Best wishes.

Hm. So leave it be don't bother contacting? Or reach out and say hi. I have no heard a single thing since last fri

Leave it be.
She may not be interested, she may be busy, but I would let her contact you if she is.

tonight she texted me something random, about a TV show she was watching. I didn't reply, because I wasn't sure if that was one of those 'girls trying to see if the guy is interested' or just a random txt in general.

Stop over thinking. She texted you, you should have texted her back. It's like someone speaking to you and you not speaking back. She has not done anything to you, don't make assumptions. You know you could just tell her you like her and is wondering how she feels about you. You will know one way or the other. You guys are adults, not teens. Talk to her.

I responded basic messages also and she responded quickly. Then I asked how she was and then it was like delayed. Quite a bit. I didn't ask to hang or how she felt. Should I? Or just leave it be?

You seem to want to know where you stand with her, you should just ask her and be done with it. Tell her you like her and would like to see her again. Ask her if she thinks you two might have something. You have nothing to lose.

Do I bluntly come out and say I like her (it's only been 2 dates) or do I ask her to do something this weekend? She called this AM and I left her a text saying I was busy at work and would call later. I was thinking of calling her tonight and talking for a bit then telling her I had fun the last 2 times and wanted to go another date this weekend.

You can do that. Sounds good. She will either turn you down or she'll go.

One thing is sure that you really like her. She also like you otherwise she wouldn't have met you twice. Now you have to find out what is it she like about you, money, friendly approach or just because you have gone to see her 30 miles? Call her next time to your city, let's see.

What the hell. So last week I called her out of her flakiness out of the blue and she apologized and said we should hang. So I pick her up (The first 2 dates she met up with me) and we had a BLAST. She kept extending the date. I finally ended up kissing her a few times and then left to go home. She called me like 30 minutes home to make sure I got home safe.

The next 2 days she pretty much texts me all day. That 2nd night, Tues, she called out of the blue to do something, said I should go over there and we can order food but it was already 9PM. Me with work early I declined, and weirdly we were on the phone for 3 hours just talking about our past and making plans in the future to go do this, or go do that, etc. The whole time she said I should have just come over there. That's where I think I screwed up. We had some crazy talks about sex, and that's what she basically hinted at. Yah I know I am an idiot for not going over there, but when we went out she told me she dated s and been screwed so figure take things slow and I Just kissed her after 3 dates, that and I have work the next day so I am not going to sacrifice being tired given my role in the organization. I did make plans with her for Fri and then she said we should hang Thur night too and order in since I didn't tonight. OK cool.

So Wed she had plans with one of her guy friends who was visiting I believe (not sure he stayed over but I have the feeling he did), and before she met up with him we talked on the phone. After that I didn't hear from her. Thur morning I didn't hear from her as normal so I sent her a text. 5 hours later she responds, and then an hour later I get home and call her and left her a voicemail. Nothing. Finally responded to her text, still nothing, so I said screw it. Haven't heard from her.

So I am thinking she was like what the heck why did I not come over that night and something happened with this other guy so she is avoiding me. But this is what happened a few weeks ago. If she calls me tonight to hang I don't know if I should ignore it or do it. Don't want to see available. I'm dating 2 other girls but I am just not interested in them as her.

Just got a text apologizing that she is sick and that is why she didn't get back to me. I don't believe that garbage.

She is playing games with you. See's you when she is bored. Leave her alone.