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  • Dec 31, 2007, 04:28 PM
    Tj3
    desidario,

    Re: Your comment to my answer:

    One's orientation drives one's attraction. If one is not oriented to desire something, one does not desire it. Scripture describes orientation as more than just desires but speaks of these as desires of your heart, what motivates/excites your innermost being.

    As for attraction or orientation being a choice, you are now dealing with opinion. There is no scientific basis for stating that it is not a choice, but scripture does speak to this matter. Scripture tells us that certain desires of our hearts are sinful and need to be changed, for example:

    Acts 8:21-22
    22 Repent therefore of this your wickedness, and pray God if perhaps the thought of your heart may be forgiven you.
    NKJV

    I did a study on this a number of years ago, and due to the amount that scripture has to say regarding our orientation, it would be different to go through it on a Q&A forum, but suffice it to say that God would not tell us to change our orientation and then make it impossible. Can homosexuals become heterosexual? Again, let's look to scripture for that answer:

    1 Cor 6:9-11
    9 Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God.
    NKJV

    So since we are speaking about the church, direction for what to do in this matter must be scripturally based.
  • Dec 31, 2007, 08:28 PM
    SkyGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Skell
    Oh the intolerance.

    Justifies why many don't belong to churches / groups who judge so ignorantly.

    They have their own relationships.

    Greetings, the posted question has produced much interest on both sides of this matter and having done some research, I found the following websites that one should read thoroughly for a better understanding of this topic matter (don't just look at the links, see what they are actually saying). I do believe that when someone "comes out" to another, it is already painful for them to do so but to want to serve a Higher Calling that comes from God is truly not for our human judgment. Can you only imagine a person who is scorned, spat upon, whipped and beaten, discriminated, ridiculed, fired from their jobs, laughed at, picked on, ostracized by society, kicked out of the house, many times by their own parents just for being gay or lesbian, having the courage to reach out to another in their time of need and especially to still want to serve the Lord? I can only imagine that is very hard and if we are to truly "Love One Another" as Jesus said we should do, we should do so to literally everyone, without any reservations, since He never qualified His statement with " ... except for gays and lesbians ... ". Therefore, a friend should never be abandoned nor should his or her higher spiritual calling. Their pain should never be made worse by rubbing their wound with little misunderstood Biblical words that act as alcohol on their pain. Let's see what, in effect, scholars actually say about what those passages that seem to excoriate homosexuals are actually saying.

    It is easy, I would imagine, for those who wish to belittle others to say that they should change, but can one really change something that science now says is not a matter of choice? It would be very difficult, in effect. The only "choice" I see here is a person's willful choice to be promiscuous. Promiscuity is never right for both heterosexuals or homosexuals in the eyes of God. That is what is truly sinful in His eyes. Therefore, people should be in a fully committed, loving relationship to avoid the temptation. However, people, in their humanity, are people with an apparent innate need and given desire for sexual expression. Few words, if any, can literally change that desire any more than yelling at a young person to not engage in sexual activity when their hormones are raging. Perhaps some would be stronger than others, but that unfortunately, would still not remove their basic biological need for the expression as all are inherently born with, with few exceptions let's face it. Therefore let's all follow Jesus' exemplary words, "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone." Let's first work on removing heterosexual desire as in lusting or coveting a neighbor's spouse or another within our own community before we ask those of the gay or lesbian orientation to do the same. When we can successfully accomplish that task within our own, we can feel free to call ourselves "masters" of change and can feel free to point the finger at others who are of a different lifestyle and say to them that they are wrong in what they do.

    The following websites should certainly peak the interest of everyone who has ever battled with this question and has searched for answers and has wanted to see what scholars, scientists and clergy have to say.


    "The Six Bible Passages Used To Condemn Homosexuals", is MUST reading and also contains very interesting links at the bottom of the page. Six Bible Passages

    Another page with great food for thought -- www.mccbath.org.uk -

    United Methodists -- untiedmethodist.com: The Question I Am Most Often Asked By People Visiting My Church's Website -- Part One

    For those more acclimated to higher learning, there is this website that should be read all the way through, especially to see what the American Psychological Assn. the AMA, the American Psychiatric Assn. and the National Assn. of Social Workers have to say about this important matter from a learned, professional standpoint: Did You Ever Wonder
  • Dec 31, 2007, 09:18 PM
    Tj3
    Actually the studies quoted as saying that homosexuality is not a matter of choice have all been discredited - sloppy methodology.

    The second point that I would like to address is that I find that people on both side4s of the issue try to make this sin some sort of special sin. In reality it isn't. The sin of homosexuality is no worse a sin than other sexual sins, or indeed other sins in general. Homosexuals should therefore not be treated worse than other people - Romans 3:23 says that we have all false short of the glory of God, and we are all sinners. Those who have received Christ as Saviour are sinner saved by grace, homosexuality or not.

    That being said, I would not expect any more from a person in dealing with the sin of homosexuality than I would from a person who was involved in a sin of pornography, or hypersexuality - they are all sins, and for those who profess to be Christians, we called to submit our lives to Christ and allow the Holy Spirit to work on us to change us, just as those in the church in Corinth were changed from their sinful ways, including homosexuality. Just because a sin may be hard to deal with is not a good reason scripturally to avoid dealing with it head on.
  • Jan 1, 2008, 12:38 AM
    savedsinner7
    The saddest thing is that so many see the Word of God as hateful, instead of the love letter for living for God. He only wants His best for us, which is very often contrary to our flesh. If we will surrender our way of thinking to His was of things we will choose His will over ours every time.
  • Jan 1, 2008, 08:59 AM
    talaniman
    According to what has been written, homosexuality is grounds to exclude him from leading a ministry, then a minister must be without sin to lead? If all sin is equal, where do you find perfection among not perfect humanity to lead? Even among the saved, are they deemed perfect, or without sin? How can they be more perfct than a celibate gay man, who gives his life to his God?
  • Jan 1, 2008, 10:06 AM
    margarita_momma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3
    That being said, I would not expect any more from a person in dealing with the sin of homosexuality than I would from a person who was involved in a sin of pornography, or hypersexuality - they are all sins, and for those who profess to be Christians, we called to submit our lives to Christ and allow the Holy Spirit to work on us to change us, just as those in the church in Corinth were changed from their sinful ways, including homosexuality. Just because a sin may be hard to deal with is not a good reason scripturally to avoid dealing with it head on.

    Your speaking as if being a homosexual is souly a "choice". I am not gay but people I know that are, do not feel that it was a choice to be gay. They feel attracted to their same sex just like heterosexual people are attracted to people of the opposite sex. Its not like they can just wake up one morning and say, "I'm going to stop having feelings like I do for my boyfriend or girlfriend because its wrong in the eyes of God." Its not a choice you can just decide to stop doing. These people are not harming anyone by loving someone of the same sex. I'm sorry but I just can't understand how some christians see it as a choice unless they are the ones that believe the stuff in the bible. The bible was written by man centuries after Jesus's death. Don't you think their own views and ideas would be included in their writings? The fact that the bible was written by man is one of the main reasons I can't believe in it. Homosexuality was looked on in disgust back in those days because it was different from the norm. Don't you think that would reflect in some of the writings?
  • Jan 1, 2008, 11:06 AM
    SkyGem
    Exactly! No one, literally no person is without sin in this world. That much is known. In my opinion, those who are celibate and wish to serve the Lord should be allowed. However, there is inequity about that, inasmuch as some Protestant religions allow their ministers to marry, therefore, they are not celibate and can still serve the Lord. So, a dichotomy exists here.

    The sad thing concerning gay people is that throughout history so many have been killed by those who felt somehow superior to them and used inept Biblical passages to try to justify their horrendous deeds. God does not allow murder according to His Sixth Commandment. But for those so-called murder-minded "Christians" (Actually they are without God. Remember The Inquisition?) presumably saying that they would do these things to gays, and I know many have heard the stomach-turning and chilling phrase "Kill a queer for Christ", they are trying to justify murder, perhaps as a way to try to prove or make others believe they themselves are not gay, when in effect, who knows? Or they might not be able to come to terms with it. Yet, they must realize that Jesus, in His Loving Compassion, never spoke about homosexuality nor condemned it in the Bible. He was silent about it. That much is known and we must remember that it is by His blood that we are Saved. However, some people with an agenda of hate will always try to justify their horrific acts through some other means and even try to tie their harmful behavior to other inappropriate passages but it falls short of the truth about our Loving Heavenly Father Jesus Christ who had a policy of inclusion of everyone. He even sat at the table with thieves.

    In the case of Mary Magdalene (who later became a saint), a sinner whom Jesus had cast out seven devils, Jesus did not ask her to change her sexual orientation, which was obviously heterosexual, but rather to "go and sin no more", to quit living a promiscuous lifestyle. This is a lesson all should learn about trying to "change" a person from what he or she is or the orientation they are born with. So, quit being promiscuous and serve the Lord is His message and it applies to ALL. It worked in the case of Mary Magdalene! His message should also have applied to the Catholic Church and its priests but we all know how unfortunate that turned out as the matter has been widely publicized. Was it their innate biological desire that led them to do what they did? Was it simply turning their back from God? Some were even still serving in the clergy until caught. But we cannot judge these people. God does, in His own time, in His own way as is appropriate.

    Will we ever know why those who choose to serve the Lord also have biological needs and desires as ordinary humans do? It is difficult to be chaste and still serve the Lord but with the allowance of marriage in the clergy, for some, and even raising a family (requiring a sexual act), especially when a priest cannot do so nor a nun, it is quite out of line to expect others of a different orientation to refrain from expressing a basic biological need. Equalize this mandate for ALL or for none in order to be equitable to all those who wish to serve the Lord.
  • Jan 1, 2008, 11:13 AM
    SkyGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman
    According to what has been written, homosexuality is grounds to exclude him from leading a ministry, then a minister must be without sin to lead? If all sin is equal, where do you find perfection among not perfect humanity to lead? Even among the saved, are they deemed perfect, or without sin? How can they be more perfct than a celibate gay man, who gives his life to his God?

    Just to note that my recent reply was to this posting.
  • Jan 1, 2008, 11:26 AM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman
    According to what has been written, homosexuality is grounds to exclude him from leading a ministry, then a minister must be without sin to lead? If all sin is equal, where do you find perfection among not perfect humanity to lead? Even among the saved, are they deemed perfect, or without sin? How can they be more perfct than a celibate gay man, who gives his life to his God?

    Good question. Let's put it in perspective. If a candidate to be a pastor for your church came up to the pulpit and said "I am a pedophile - I am sexually attracted to children and I cannot help it and there is nothing wrong with it". Would he be qualified to be a pastor in your opinion?

    That is not the same as a candidate coming up and saying that he is a sinner saved by grace before God, and that he acknowledges his sin and has submitted himself to be changed by the Holy Spirit.

    see the difference?

    It is not a case that a man be without sin, but rather that the man be willing to acknowledge his sin and be willing to change. We all come to God as we are, sinners and thus a homosexual is a still a homosexual when he receives Christ, but a person who is truly save will seek to be chnaged from their sinful desires through the wotrk of the Holy Spirit.
  • Jan 1, 2008, 11:42 AM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by margarita_momma
    Your speaking as if being a homosexual is souly a "choice". I am not gay but people I know that are, do not feel that it was a choice to be gay. They feel attracted to their same sex just like heterosexual people are attracted to people of the opposite sex. Its not like they can just wake up one morning and say, "I'm going to stop having feelings like I do for my boyfriend or girlfriend because its wrong in the eyes of God." Its not a choice you can just decide to stop doing. These people are not harming anyone by loving someone of the same sex. I'm sorry but I just can't understand how some christians see it as a choice unless they are the ones that believe the stuff in the bible. The bible was written by man centuries after Jesus's death. Don't you think their own views and ideas would be included in their writings? The fact that the bible was written by man is one of the main reasons I can't believe in it. Homosexuality was looked on in disgust back in those days because it was different from the norm. Don't you think that would reflect in some of the writings?

    First, there is no scientific basis for claiming that it is not a choice. The studies which did claim this have been long since discredited.

    Second, scripture says that when a persons come to Christ, that change is possible:

    1 Cor 6:9-11
    9 Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God.
    NKJV

    Notice that some in the church in Corinth were homosexuals before coming to Christ?

    As for it being hard to change, no doubt it is. Scripture says that when Adam, sinned that we all were subjected to the sin nature, which is the orientation to sinful desires - of all types including homosexuality. Paul says that we are slaves to sin without Christ, but once we receive Christ as Saviour, we become slaves to righteousness and are no longer subject to being controlled by the sinful orientations.

    Rom 6:11-14
    12 Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body, that you should obey it in its lusts. 13 And do not present your members as instruments of unrighteousness to sin, but present yourselves to God as being alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness to God. 14 For sin shall not have dominion over you, for you are not under law but under grace.
    NKJV

    Lastly, there are a couple of organizations started by former homosexuals who were changed through Christ, therefore we have living evidence that it is possible. But the key is that the person must be willing to submit themselves to the Holy Spirit and to allow this change to take place. Some years back I had a similar discussion with a homosexual who said that he had accepted Christ, and told me that he had no choice and could not change. We discussed how he though about his homosexual orientation and he said that he "loved and embraced it". That being the case, he clearly had not come to the point where he was prepared to acknowledge it as sin and to submit to the changing power of the Holy Spirit.
  • Jan 1, 2008, 12:33 PM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3
    If a candidate to be a pastor for your church came up to the pulpit and said "I am a pedophile - I am sexually attracted to children and I cannot help it and there is nothing wrong with it". Would he be qualified to be a pastor in your opinion?

    But it happens. Many priests were pedophiles, they ruined thousands of lives and the church did nothing to stop it. See: Roman Catholic sex abuse cases - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

    Being christian makes one no morally better that the next person. Divorces, rapes, murders, bestiality, drug abuse, spouse battering... these are in no less numbers among the religious community than among the non-religious.
  • Jan 1, 2008, 12:57 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NeedKarma
    But it happens. Many priests were pedophiles, they ruined thousands of lives and the church did nothing to stop it. See: Roman Catholic sex abuse cases - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

    Agreed. That is my point. It should not happen.

    1 Tim 3:1-7
    3:1 This is a faithful saying: If a man desires the position of a bishop, he desires a good work. 2 A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, temperate, sober-minded, of good behavior, hospitable, able to teach; 3 not given to wine, not violent, not greedy for money, but gentle, not quarrelsome, not covetous; 4 one who rules his own house well, having his children in submission with all reverence 5(for if a man does not know how to rule his own house, how will he take care of the church of God?); 6 not a novice, lest being puffed up with pride he fall into the same condemnation as the devil. 7 Moreover he must have a good testimony among those who are outside, lest he fall into reproach and the snare of the devil.
    NKJV

    Quote:

    Being christian makes one no morally better that the next person. Divorces, rapes, murders, bestiality, drug abuse, spouse battering... these are in no less numbers among the religious community than among the non-religious.
    First, let's be clear that there are two types of people called Christian - those who profess to be but are not and those who truly are Christian. Jesus spoke of the first category in this passage:

    Matt 7:21-23
    21 "Not everyone who says to Me, 'Lord, Lord,' shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father in heaven. 22 Many will say to Me in that day, 'Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name, cast out demons in Your name, and done many wonders in Your name?' 23 "And then I will declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness!'
    NKJV

    Often people assume that if a person acts nice, does good works or in some cases performs signs and wonders, that they are automatically a Christian. This is not true. A Christian is a person who has received Jesus as Lord and Saviour (that is more than just saying the words). Frequently, when Christians are reported to have done these things, they are in the first category, but not always. Even those of us who are saved do fall from time to time and do things that we should not. That is unfortunate but true. Regardless, I think that whatever the point is of that comment, that it has strayed off topic.
  • Jan 1, 2008, 01:55 PM
    margarita_momma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3
    Lastly, there are a couple of organizations started by former homosexuals who were changed through Christ, therefore we have living evidence that it is possible.


    This is called denial.
  • Jan 1, 2008, 01:59 PM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3
    First, let's be clear that there are two types of people called Christian - those who profess to be but are not and those who truly are Christian.

    That's always the fallback isn't: it someone does something that you deem unworthy then they were not a 'true' christian. That makes it real easy for you. :rolleyes:
  • Jan 1, 2008, 02:33 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by margarita_momma
    This is called denial.

    Interesting - is your judgment of these people based upon some valid evidence of substance that you can share with us, or is it because their experience does not agree with your belief?
  • Jan 1, 2008, 02:34 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NeedKarma
    That's always the fallback isn't: it someone does something that you deem unworthy then they were not a 'true' christian. That makes it real easy for you. :rolleyes:

    I did not say that. Read again before you pronounce judgment. Here is what I said (bold/underline added to clarify points that you apparently missed on the first read):

    Often people assume that if a person acts nice, does good works or in some cases performs signs and wonders, that they are automatically a Christian. This is not true. A Christian is a person who has received Jesus as Lord and Saviour (that is more than just saying the words). Frequently, when Christians are reported to have done these things, they are in the first category, but not always. Even those of us who are saved do fall from time to time and do things that we should not. That is unfortunate but true. Regardless, I think that whatever the point is of that comment, that it has strayed off topic.

    Now as I said, I believe that we should move on to address the question at hand.
  • Jan 2, 2008, 10:12 AM
    margarita_momma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3
    Interesting - is your judgment of these people based upon some valid evidence of substance that you can share with us, or is it because their experience does not agree with your belief?

    I believe the people you are speaking of probably suppressed their feelings so they could be excepted by other Christians without fear of being called out as a sinner or because they are probably brainwashed by bible versus like a few people I know. Yes, that is souly my belief and opinion. ;)
  • Jan 2, 2008, 12:42 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by margarita_momma
    I believe the people you are speaking of probably surpressed their feelings so they could be excepted by other Christians without fear of being called out as a sinner or because they are probably brainwashed by bible versus like a few people I know. Yes, that is souly my belief and opinion. ;)

    Interesting. Why do you assume that what the people on one side "believe" to be true is absolute fact, where what the other side "believes" to be true is denial on their part. Why not a consistent approach on the manner in which you judge the beliefs of both sides?
  • Jan 2, 2008, 02:06 PM
    margarita_momma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3
    Interesting. Why do you assume that what the people on one side "believe" to be true is absolute fact, where what the other side "believes" to be true is denial on their part. Why not a consistent approach on the manner in which you judge the beliefs of both sides?

    Umm... because I am human and I have an opinion just as you do. That is all you are speaking as well. There is no scientific evidence that any of the stuff you are talking about happened and if it did happen, if it was legit. I speak my opinion even though I have no evidence to back it up, just as you speak about "your god" when you have no evidence to back it up.
  • Jan 2, 2008, 05:21 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by margarita_momma
    Umm...because I am human and I have an opinion just as you do. That is all you are speaking as well. There is no scientific evidence that any of the stuff you are talking about happened and if it did happen, if it was legit. I speak my opinion even though I have no evidence to back it up, just as you speak about "your god" when you have no evidence to back it up.

    I think that this is getting off topic because it seems that rather than the topic of the acceptability of a gay minister, you are arguing the validity of the evidence supporting the existence of God. This has been discussed in other threads and I do not feel that it is appropriate to raise that issue once again here. By the fact that we are discussing a matter of the church, the truth of God is assumed, otherwise the church would not exist. If you wish to discuss the evidence for God, then please feel free to engage the topic on one of those other threads.

    As for your opinion, you are more than welcome to put forward your opinion. My point was that you were not being consistent on the way that you were judging the beliefs of others.
  • Jan 2, 2008, 09:25 PM
    talaniman
    So a gay celibate guy can be a minister, as FR Chuck has pointed out, and even acknowledges that it is in fact so. It seems that opinions are moot at this point, because the answer is yes.
  • Jan 2, 2008, 09:41 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman
    So a gay celibate guy can be a minister, as FR Chuck has pointed out, and even acknowledges that it is in fact so. It seems that opinions are moot at this point, because the answer is yes.

    The question was not whether it is possible - certainly various churches permit it and can do so - but the question was whether a Christian should allow it. When we look at scripture, the answer is clearly "no". When we are speaking about Christian doctrine, then opinions must fall aside when scripture speaks.
  • Jan 2, 2008, 10:17 PM
    talaniman
    I really don't care, as I choose not to be affiliated with any denomination. Some allow it some don't. I will leave it for you Christians to figure out. Interpretation is only the opinion of the interpreter.
  • Jan 2, 2008, 10:26 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman
    I really don't care, as I choose not to be affiliated with any denomination. Some allow it some don't. I will leave it for you Christians to figure out. Interpretation is only the opinion of the interpreter.

    I am not affiliated with a denomination either. Scripture tells us that the Bible is of no private interpretation (2 Peter 1:20), so we are to allow it to speak for itself and interpret itself.
  • Jan 3, 2008, 11:20 AM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by waterlilly
    There is ample evidence and the difference between you and Christians is that we KNOW and you DONT know..;)

    This is an example of the divisiveness that drives people away from religion. The superiority attitude is a big turn off.
  • Jan 3, 2008, 11:38 AM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by waterlilly
    Yes it is true, poeple are turned off by absolute Truth.

    Sorry honey, there is no such thing as 'absolute truth'. You take what you believe and call it "the truth". Every religion/denomination does the same.
  • Jan 3, 2008, 01:56 PM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by waterlilly
    Yes it is true, poeple are turned off by absolute Truth.
    Everyone has the absolute truth, that makes you one of many.
  • Jan 3, 2008, 03:01 PM
    margarita_momma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by waterlilly
    Yes it is true, poeple are turned off by absolute Truth. It is too black and white for some poeple. They are more confortable with grey areas because it gives them the leverage to avoid truth and make up their own rules as they go.

    Its funny how a lot of overly religious people, like yourself, think the only reason non-believers don't believe is because we don't want to follow the rules and want to avoid the truth. A lot of us don't believe because honestly religion just sounds like a lot of made up opinions by other people. Its people like yourself that have that snotty Hollier than though mentality that turned me away from religion in the first place.

    Oh and NeedKarma... I agree with your last post. I have just agreed with you so much the site won't let me do it anymore. Ha ha!
  • Jan 3, 2008, 04:40 PM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    but having a personal relationship with the Living God.
    I agree on that, but though The God that I understand guides me, I don't know the whole story, and don't care who is right or wrong. There can be no absolute truth with us humans, only what we choose to believe. God put us here but the means is beyond us. The overwhelming evidence, is we don't really know. As humans we fill in the blanks with our own truth, but we learn as we grow, if we grow and are openminded, and can accept what is true.
  • Jan 3, 2008, 05:17 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NeedKarma
    This is an example of the divisiveness that drives people away from religion. The superiority attitude is a big turn off.

    NK,

    Christians do not see themselves as superior. We are all sinners, and we know that unless we humbled ourselves and acknowledged our sin before God that we would be on our way to hell. It is only through acknowledging that we cannot save ourselves and it is our own sin that has condemned us that we can saved by grace through the sacrifice that Jesus made on the cross to pay the price for our sins.

    Tom
  • Jan 3, 2008, 05:31 PM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3
    Christians do not see themselves as superior.

    Hi Tom,

    I see what you are saying and that is my experience with my local christian friends as well. But hang around this website long enough and you'll see what I am talking about.
  • Jan 3, 2008, 05:53 PM
    Tertullian
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by waterlilly
    Yes it is true, poeple are turned off by absolute Truth. It is too black and white for some poeple. They are more confortable with grey areas because it gives them the leverage to avoid truth and make up their own rules as they go.

    There is no Black and White in religion that can be taken as Absolute Truth!! Absolute Truth for a Roman Catholic is Papal infallibility... for a Jehovah's Witness it is the idea of a renewed earth for the faithful... for monophysites it is the Single Nature of Christ. When a religionist claims Absolute Truth he/she is merely saying "the absolute truth can only be found in MY belief system". That is patently false.
  • Jan 3, 2008, 06:09 PM
    Tertullian
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3
    I am not affiliated with a denomination either. Scripture tells us that the Bible is of no private interpretation (2 Peter 1:20), so we are to allow it to speak for itself and interpret itself.

    You have merely confirmed that you have INTERPRETED Scripture to your own satisfaction. Without interpretation the conflicting reports in the bible have to be taken literally and that turns the bible into a field strewn with land mines for those seeking guidance, e.g. The Gospels tell us that Jesus Baptized. (John 3:22).. and the same Gospel has already told us that Jesus did NOT Baptize (John 4:2). If we let the bible speak for itself... what do these verses tell us? Does the inpiration of God allow for this kind of mis-speaking??
  • Jan 3, 2008, 06:16 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tertullian
    You have merely confirmed that you have INTERPRETED Scripture to your own satisfaction.

    Really? If it was on topic, I would ask you how you came to that conclusion, but since it is not, I'd rather see this thread stay on topic. It is however interesting how people so often try to distract from the topic to focus on the person.

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    Without interpretation the conflicting reports in the bible have to be taken literally and that turns the bible into a field strewn with land mines for those seeking guidance, e.g. The Gospels tell us that Jesus Baptized. (John 3:22).. and the same Gospel has already told us that Jesus did NOT Baptize (John 4:2). If we let the bible speak for itself... what do these verses tell us? Does the inpiration of God allow for this kind of mis-speaking??
    I have seen the lists of so-called contradictions on internet and have spent far too many hours just reading people the context - usually one verse before and after makes it abundantly clear that there is no contradiction. I find that rarely do those copying and pasting these comments actually read the context themselves, I have chosen not to waste my time dealing with these claims.

    But again, your comments are off topic.
  • Jan 4, 2008, 09:48 AM
    Soldout
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NeedKarma
    Hi Tom,

    I see what you are saying and that is my experience with my local christian friends as well. But hang around this website long enough and you'll see what I am talking about.

    You have obviously been on this web site long enough.. maybe too long... lol Do you have a life (you know job, wife, kids) besides harassing christians on this website? Just currious because it seems like you are on the Christian forums 24 7 I can't imagine how you have time for anything else. For someone who is a professed atheist you sure do invest a lot of time in religion. Funny :D
  • Jan 4, 2008, 12:41 PM
    Tertullian
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3
    Really? If it was on topic, I would ask you how you came to that conclusion, but since it is not, I'd rather see this thread stay on topic. It is however interesting how people so often try to distract from the topic to focus on the person.



    I have seen the lists of so-called contradictions on internet and have spent far too many hours just reading people the context - usually one verse before and after makes it abundantly clear that there is no contradiction. I find that rarely do those copying and pasting these comments actually read the context themselves, I have chosen not to waste my time dealing with these claims.

    But again, your comments are off topic.


    How can you claim that MY comments were "off topic" when YOU were the one who introduced the new thread of biblical interpretation??
    And though you claim that verses "rarely" contradict each other... you do nothing to explain how two contradictory verses can appear in the same chapter?? Either Jesus Baptized or he did NOT Baptize. One claim is wrong. If it was a simple 'mis-speak' that puts the idea of divine inspiration in jeopardy. I should think you would want to address THAT.
  • Jan 4, 2008, 01:02 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tertullian
    How can you claim that MY comments were "off topic" when YOU were the one who introduced the new thread of biblical interpretation??

    No I did not. Check post #96.

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    And though you claim that verses "rarely" contradict each other
    No I didn't. I said that rarely do those making these claims ever check the context first. I have yet to see a real contradiction.

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    ... you do nothing to explain how two contradictory verses can appear in the same chapter??
    No, because it is off-topic. If you wish to discuss what you believe to be contradictions, I believe that another thread would be appropriate.
  • Jan 4, 2008, 02:01 PM
    Tertullian
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tj3
    No I did not. Check post #96.



    No I didn't. I said that rarely do those making these claims ever check the context first. I have yet to see a real contradiction.



    No, because it is off-topic. If you wish to discuss what you believe to be contradictions, I believe that another thread would be appropriate.


    Not so: In post #95 you begin your "scripture" claim with "opinions must fall aside when Scripture speaks'. THAT is an opinion.

    And you follow in post #99... '... the bible is of no private interpretation'. MY response came AFTER you went off topic.
  • Jan 4, 2008, 04:02 PM
    Soldout
    Quote:

    tertullian: Are you attacking the messenger because you do not like the message?? You seem to make a habit of sniping at all those who do not agree with you. Why is that??
    No, actually I was just making an observation that I found funny that's all.
  • Jan 4, 2008, 05:36 PM
    Tj3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tertullian
    Not so: In post #95 you begin your "scripture" claim with "opinions must fall aside when Scripture speaks'. THAT is an opinion.

    But not discussing interpretation.

    Now get back on topic.

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