I have absolutely had it! I hate my son! I do! He is argumentative continually. I have never heard a human being argue to the extent he does. He is rude to not only me, his step father, other adults, a teacher at school and friends. He says all we do is yell at him and I have made a concentrated effort to not raise my voice. At this point should I have counseling? Should he/we? I am at my wits end. Any advice is appreciated.