This is sort of embarrassing, but I'd rather be embarrassed and get answers I guess :confused: . Anyway, I am a 20 year old male, and I have never been able to reach an orgasm through masturbation. I've tried numerous times, and I just bored/frustrated after a long session of masturbating. I figured that it meant I just couldn't ejaculate at all. However, when I started getting intimate with women, I could still not reach an orgasm through hand or oral stimulation, but I COULD through intercourse. So, I know I can orgasm, but why only through intercourse and nothing else. I would really like to be able to pleasure myself, or at least know to throw in the towel and not worry about it.

I know it sounds stupid, but any advice would help, thanks :(

To tell you the truth, I don't know if there's anything you can do. Some things just don't work for certain people. You say you've tried many things, but I'm still going to link you to a Male Masturbation website. It has some great suggestions. I advise you to try the ones that give a sensation similar to that of intercourse and see if it works.

Best of luck!

Male Masturbation- JackinWorld.com (http://www.jackinworld.com/expert/01basica.html)

Good link Kepi ;), and nice title!! LOL!

I have developed the same problem. It sucks not to find any advice. My wife only wants sex 1 or twice a month and it is very frustrating not being able to take cre of myself.