I have a very close friend, and we were in love in high school, and broke up. Now its been years pass by, after a lond time being close friends again, now we started to gain feelings back. We still talk but none of us tell the other to get back again but that's both of us want. I know this since we're very close friends and he showed me it all the time but just too shy to pop it up.

He is going to move to somewhere else for business. He found an apartment and stay with1 guy roommate. THe problem is I am afraid he will know many new girls as he goes to new place and from his roommate too. And will soon have a new girlfriend. I don't know why I always fear that he will be drawn in something not good even though I know that he is a tough mature man and he is almost 30, already paid heavy price for his youth. I'm afraid I will lose him someday. But I also know that there is nothing I can do as we are apart now. I just leave everything to fate

Friends told me that if he is so easy to be drawn in something, he would have been when he has been single all that years, but he just didn't do it, he always stayed strong.

Part of me still feel insecured. Am I sick?

Be honest and tell him how you feel! Then see where fate takes you two.

C'mon, he's almost 30, and a strong man like you said. And you guys are friends for years, its not going to fade away so fast just because he moves. But is there any way that you guys can be together? Like you move to him or something?

But well, I guess 1 more thing: you have to tell him how you feel about him if you don't want him with other gal. Goodluck!