Tell me, please,
How does a wife deal gracefully with her husbands baby mama... from the past... he has a daughter with her (my stepdaughter) and we have a great relationship. I love my husband, and I don't want to be a y woman... but his ex is VERY trying. Does anyone have similar experiences?

I can't SAY I HAVE EXACTLY BEEN THROUGH THE SAME THING BUT YOU KNOW WHAT.. my two best friends have kids and there baby daddys got another baby mama they got 2 deal with! Its hard I kknow but you aren't going to be able to get rid of her no how because obviously they are linked for life you know. All you can do is be undeerstanding of the situation. If she trying to get at your husband still then you should step in and say something to her because that's disreespectful to the extreme. You have him now for better or for worse so I feel she is probably jealous of you that's why she is so 'TRYING'