I'm getting married on sept 9th and I want to have an extra special night of romance on our wedding night. We are sexually active now he is the one and only guy I have ever done anything with. I was looking for some advice or suggestions as what I could do to make this an extra special night I'm 21 and he's 27. We're having a private after party with some close friends after the wedding in our honeymoon suite so they'll be a little alc involved on our wedding night.

Get a goat, 2 lbs of ice and a 9 iron.

You're going to need more than 2 lbs of ice!!

j/k but seriously... Im sure there is a lot you can do that will make that night special. But we cannot really give an adequate suggestion without knowing where you are now.

Example.. we could have suggested sex but you've already said you've been having sex. We could have suggested chocolate body paint, but maybe you've done that as well... who knows, you may have already tried the whole goat thing.

Are you looking for just romance, sexual romance, sexual craziness, will this involve you're close friends, too?

No it will not innvolve the close friends they will be leaveing as far as sex goes we haven't really been kinky besides having anal sex a couple of times we've done it missionary doggie etc but notthing really kinky and of course we've had oral . Sexual romance kinkiness etc is what I'm looking for

Okay I'm no sex expert but I can give you a little advice. First of all, if you are having a party in your suite I would suggest that you have a certain time that guests should start heading out; this will allow you to actually have time to have a “wedding night.” It is also a good idea to not get sloppy drunk because this will make the quality of sex go down. Find a way to set the mood and make sure there is a lot of foreplay. Light some candles, buy a sexy outfit, and do what feels natural. Make it passionate and have fun; don’t set up a strict plan just play with it.

Yeah agreed... sexy outfit, candles, mood setters... lubricants & jellies... toys (for you and him)... scarves (for tying hands to headboards) & blindfolds... strawberries and champagne... whip cream... chocolate body paint... porn... sex dice... just plenty of things to follow wherever the mood is taking you. Avoid the "plan" and just go with the flow... just be prepared for anything ;)