So
Right
There's this fitt guy
Who I am going out with
N he's so nice
But he's 16 and left school
I'm 14
:S
And I'm scared of what he might want
I'm kind of ready
But then I feel so scared:S
Help!:confused:

Trust me you are far from ready. He is too old for you . If he does anyhting with you it would be considered rape

If you are scared, and if he truly does like you, he will understand. You got to talk to him about YOUR feelings and YOUR preferneces and don't make him do anything that you don't want to do.

She is under sixteen he is over it is statutory (excuse my spelling) rape

True, depending on your State and/or country.

But honey, if you don't want to, just say no.


Simple and effective.

True, depending on your State and/or country.

But honey, if you don't want to, just say no.


Simple and effective.


I forgot true it depends upon the state!

You will know when you are ready, don't do anything just to please someone else. This is your chance that so many teens miss out on to get yourself esteem rolling in the right direction. To be honest I am 32 now but when I was your age I made really bad choices and had to live with myself because of them. Now that I look back I feel a lot of regret for the way I let other people, (guys) take full advantage of my weakness to say no. It is a bad feeling even to this day honey! I really want to see you doing other things that will not make you feel uncomfortable! Be strong and keep yourself out of harms way! Good luck!

These are just facts and results that could happen, not really my opinion.

1)sleeping with someone 2 years older than you at the age of 14 doesn't look good .
2)if you're scared of him don't do it.
3)you're in charge of your own life
4)he's a dropout... think about how cruel reality can be in this situation.

Now in MY opinion if you're ready go for it but if you regret it, it will hurt inside a lot.

If your not ready that's all there is. If he really liked you then he wouldn't make you do stuff you don't want to do!

If you were ready, you wouldn't be scared.

Tell him no, that you both have to wait.

If he cares for you, he'll understand.

If he keeps trying to talk you into it after you explain your feelings, then he's a jerk that just wants to get into your pants.