I met this girl and we've been hanging out and stuff and well I took her to a dance and the whole day went perfect and we kissed and well we totally planned to chill again...


Basically this Thursday I got a ring and was going to take her to the spot we first kissed and get on my knee and ask to her to go out with me you know the idea... but then after everything she said she wasn't ready for a relationship and I pretty much told her I'd wait and that the ring was her's and that when she was ready she could wear it...

But today after I got home from a huge baseball game I called her sister and told her how that night went and that I planned on going to her graduation and that I liked her a lot but for now I just wanted to be friends and be there for her and I know that maybe like 3 or 4 months down the road we might hook up...


And her sister basically said that honestly I shouldn't even go to her graduation and just to give her time and space and not to talk to her for about or week or so and then after that time to call her then and see if she wants to hang out and even have anything to do with me...


HONESTLY--tell me what you think about that... please I need some comforting advice

Well I think she was being perfectly honest, she's not ready for a relationship. You can't push yourself on someone and think they are going to change their mind. Give her some space and if she's comes around then good. If not, move on.