Can anyone help me by telling what precautions should a girl to take while having sex for the first time after marriage?

Is there a lot of pain for a girl? If there is what is the way to lessen the pain?

Help required urgently

Thanks in advance

I think your not seeing immediate answers to your post as it's hard to know what your age is and there are a few underage girls/guys posting here. Nobody wants to be the one to tell you what your parents/guardians should be telling you. As well, nobody wants to be the one to give you the go ahead not knowing your family background (religious, personal beliefs, etc) What I will say is that yes it hurts but I think it depends on the girl. If you've read other posts you would see some answers to your question. Obviously the first is to always be safe and use a condom. For now I will leave it at that. I, for one, do not want to be educating someone who could be my daughter. Cathy

Yeah actually I'm new user that's why didn't read much posts.
My age is 23 and I'm going to get marry in one week

But anyway thanks for your reply

Two words.

Be gentle.

Take your time.

Okay maybe five words lol.

Oh, and one more Practise. Practise. Practise.

Sense of humour, is very important too.

Hope all these different words helps, besides the obvious that was mentioned in the other post.

Congratulations! I think that's great and best of luck to you and your soon-to-be husband!
Okay, as long as he's considerate and gentle, everything should be fine.

Hi... you just need to be calm. Don't be tensed as it will add to the pain. If you go slow and steady, and if you are highly aroused then the pain should be less. Rest depends from person to person as everyone has a different body structure and functioning. All the best for the new beginning. God bless

Don't forget birth control. He needs to use a condom or you want to be on the pill at least a month before that honeymoon. I doubt you want to be dealing with a pregnancy the months of your marriage.

Thank you all

U all really helped me and encouraged me

Thanks to the administrator of this site

It's a good way to take help from experts

Love u all

Two words.

Be gentle.

Take your time.

Okay maybe five words lol.

Oh, and one more Practise. Practise. Practise.

Sense of humour, is very important too.

Hope all these different words helps, besides the obvious that was mentioned in the other post.


I agree. These are all key for the first time. Congrats!

Thanks once again

You're very welcome!
:)