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still in love
May 18, 2007, 12:51 PM
I have asked a question before asking what I should do about my ex liking me best friend. Well, he found out that I still liked him! He kept it quiet while I was talking to him over msn and then he asked why did I still like him! I was mortified! He teold me to get over him and I explained that I have tried so hard and I have dreamed of the day that would happen. Now he wants to set me up with one of his friends! The thing about him and my best friend still stands. If you catch my drift.:(

nymphetamine
May 18, 2007, 01:11 PM
You have to do just that what he said. Get over him. I know its hard and a good tip would be don't let him see that its bothering you. When you see him hold your chin up. Don't tell him that you have feelings for him and bla bla because guys love to hold stuff like that over a woman. It makes you look less attractive and like less of a challenge to him if you get my drift. I'm not going to say that would help you win him over but, it doesn't hurt to try. If he brings up trying to set you up again, Just tell him you are not interested in hooking up with anyone at the moment and would rather have some you time and enjoy the single life for a bit. I think people usually go for their boyfriend or gf's friends because its like forbidden territory or something. He might get bored with her after the excitement dies down and if not oh well. You're still young anyway. Don't waste it worrying about some guy when you have better things to do.

still in love
May 18, 2007, 01:17 PM
Wow that's some good advice thanks! :D

nymphetamine
May 18, 2007, 01:18 PM
Haha no prob :)

still in love
May 18, 2007, 01:20 PM
Its nice to find a site were people are so nice and understanding!

wiggitywackiraq
May 28, 2007, 04:50 AM
I agree with still in love, this site is weird. Or nice or whatever. Most women I have come into contact with on this thing wouls say, "go out with his friend, and fu** him better than you fu**ed your ex" I'm glad to see two women working on a problem and resolving it civily, I am proud to have you two fine women in this world, now go out and spread the word that this is how things get resolved. I've never heard better advice in my life... it was spot on. Good going nymph.

airsoccer07
May 28, 2007, 05:18 AM
I agree with still in love, this site nice and I also agree with that wiggitywackiraq guy just to see women working on a problem and resolving it civily, women don't do that too much anymore they do the I'm going to cut his tire and fu** his car up thing so good job girls and keep you head up and hey you too wiggitywackiraq keep up with the great advice and kind heart.

still in love
May 28, 2007, 07:39 AM
Thanks :D understanding! Yay!! But I agree with you guys, some girls out there are just really b***** nowadays.