I am being very selfish to my husband I need some advice. I have a great husband we are trying to patch things up and I am being very selfish to him, help me

Stop being so selfish. If you want more, you have to provide more info.

Selfish.. in what way? Please elaborate. In the meantime, all I can say is that breaking takes a moment... while making a relationship needs a lifetime of commitment and togetherness... in other words, it's easy to break... and hard to make... so people try the easy way and end up feeling lost... however if efforts made hard, the fruits have a bearing for a lifetime which you can cherish with fondness... write more if you need to know more.

Sometimes people close up when they are hurt... sometimes they put walls up and won't let people in. Open up to your husband why you are being selfish and maybe you'll be able to stop.