This wasn't just a mistake... it was probably the dumbest one that anyone could ever make. I have dated the perfect man for about a year and a half but after awhile things between us weren't that good... he seemed like he didn't care enough and I thought I was too young to have a serious relationship and just wasn't ready to settle down. Now, in this relationship he has done absolutely nothing wrong... never cheated... NOTHING. Sometimes, it still drives me nuts just knowing that he is PERFECT in everything that he does, and I am usually the "problem-starter". Well, I knew another guy, I go to school with him and we became very close until one day I realized I had crossed the line. After that, things only seemed to get worse, I lost all my morals in the blink of an eye and now that I was in this mess with this other man did not now how to get out. So, I lied... maybe more than one time... who knows why? But now I'm afraid that the perfect man will never take me back... and to be quite blunt... who blames him? I did him wrong... even though in the very beginning of our relationship I promised that this would never happen. I lost all trust and respect from him and I just need to know how to at least tell him how sorry I am!

So, you 2 are broken up now and he knows all about the cheating, correct? And you 2 haven't really talked or what? Like explain the aftermath a little bit more

I was cheated on after 3 days and I won't take that girl back.. but mabye talking to him and explaining will help the relation ship and mabye take you back